Love is on everybody's mind. I sometimes get the impression that everything evolves around it. Whenever you turn on the TV you will see a show about love. There will always be another Dr.Phil giving a good relationship advice or another desperate house wife cheating on her husband before the big breakup. Same goes for published media. Many book covers are sporting pictures of roses, sunrises and sunsets promising the reader a roller coaster of romantic emotions or even advice on how to get over an ex. Entertainment publications, talk about about celebrities. Almost all of those people became famous after taking part in a romantic film.
It's so evident that it's not even worth mentioning. We are clearly preoccupied by romance.
Some people might see it as something negative. I personally think it's great. The topic should be discussed more in industrialized countries like The Russian federation and Netherlands. These countries see a diminishing population. Large number of people in those countries are brainwashed into believing that money is the most important thing. Media praises money and riches and pays less attention to love. It's not to say that there are no 'love' shows in those countries. But I think media should concentrate less on the drama and more on the positive. Breakups and unfaithful lovers are put on the spot light, while a simple happy family is considered boring and stays in the background. Same goes for books that give you the latest advice on how to dump someone or how to get over being dumped. Why is it so hard to find a book that will explain how to fix a relationship and help you get your lover back? Books that make you fight for your love and not give up should be more prevalent. When was the last time you saw a best seller like that?
In some states there are a divorce rates of 40%. When will it end? Those are mind blowing statistics! It's as if people decide to jump the ship and shop elsewhere too quickly. I think that almost all problems have a solution. Even if one of the union members is cheating, doesn't mean the couple has to breakup. What caused this infidelity? May be it was caused by a grave mistake on the part of the husband? Could this be a one time thing, that can be prevented if the couple establishes a better spiritual connection? In many instances it is a small difference that makes a big change. It's been said that the top reason why wives go to look elsewhere is the lack of recognition.
Therefore it becomes clear that we should value our partner. Let's concentrate on similarities and not the differences. Let's be understanding and patient towards one another. We can choose the feelings of fondness instead of anger. Because in the end of the day love always prevails.
