10 Tips For Avoiding Dining Disaster For High-achieving Women Entrepreneurs, Executives & Nonprofits

It has happened to the best of us – we have been dining at a nice restaurant and something has caught us off-guard. Whether it was an unfamiliar dish or the 6th fork that got you flustered; being prepared for the next business lunch can help you feel confident and ready you for your next meal (and deal!)

Remember – dressing and acting professionally during business meals help you to establish long-term relationships. One or two faux pas can be forgiven as long as you are gracious and respectful to everyone – including the wait staff.

I frequently receive phone calls from my clients (high-achieving women entrepreneurs, executives and non-profit leaders) who ask me about dining rules, tips, and social graces along with business card etiquette.

Here are my top 10 dining rules:

1. If you don’t want wine, never flip your wine glass over – just say “no thank you” if offered.
2. Napkins are tricky, but immediately after sitting, place the napkin in your lap. If the napkin is in the goblet, this is a sign from the restaurant that the server will place the napkin into your lap. If you excuse yourself during the meal, place the napkin on the left hand side of your plate or on the chair. This means you aren't done. When done, place napkin on the right of the plate and your fork and knife horizontally across the plate.
3. Don’t push your plate away or stack your dishes.
4. Use utensils from the outside in; those at the top of your plate are for dessert.
5. Don’t put your purse, cell phone, or keys on the table. You should turn your cell phone off before you entered the restaurant, right?
6. Never apply lipstick or touch your hair at the table.
7. Break bread into bite sized pieces. Butter the pieces one at a time. Don’t butter your bread directly from the butter disk. Put a small amount of butter on your bread plate.
8. Always pass salt and pepper shakers together, even if you are asked to pass one or the other – they are a pair.
9. When passing food, offer to serve your neighbor before serving yourself.
10. Wait until everyone has been served before you begin eating; in a large group, you may start after four or five people next to you have been served.

According to a poll conducted by The Creative Group, an advertising and marketing firm, being rude to a restaurant employee is the No. 1 reason a business lunch turns out badly. The other top two reasons: arriving late and poor table manners. The best news is that all three of these business luncheon disasters are completely within your control.

By: Dr Laureen Wishom

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Dr. Laureen Wishom, the Positioning and Business Growth Expert produces powerful results for high-achieving women entrepreneurs, executives, and non-profit leaders who want to: 1) brand their brilliance; 2) form strategic alliances, partnerships and collaborations; 3) build high-end relationships and 4) market to the affluent™. Online: www/gahaw.com and bit.ly/eCyRAA.