3 Helpful Tips For Getting My Ex Back

When the love of your life decides she's had enough and breaks it off, it's a seriously painful time in your life. You have a million things running through your head, and you have no idea what to actually do...all you know is you can't live life this way, and you'll do anything to have her back.

Here are some words of advice for you, to help you get through this and come out of it in a better place than where you started:

1) It's counter-intuitive, but while your first impulse is to try to keep communication strong between you and your ex in order to work out the problems more effectively the best course of action is actually to break it off for about a month. This time of "radio silence" lets you both pull yourselves back together from the drama of the breakup, and also allows you to build a plan to get her back.

2) Appearance is everything when you're not purposefully communicating...if your ex happens to see you around when you two aren't "in-touch," how do you want to look? Like your life is falling apart, or like you're keeping yourself together? Keeping up with your appearance is pretty important...you don't want to look like a downtrodden mess, it's just not attractive.

3) Somewhat relating to appearance, but also good for your recovery is to surround yourself with allies. Friends, family, whoever it is that makes you happy and cares about you...spend a lot of time with them, and keep your social life strong. If you're hanging out in town with your best friends and having a good time, you'll get the benefit of their emotional support as well as looking like you're doing well should your ex happen to see you.

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By: Kane Toh

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