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3 Secrets Of Meeting Women Online
First thing - your profile. You have got to keep in mind that women think differently than men do in most aspects of life. You're sitting there, writing your profile and trying to imagine exactly what women a) want to hear and b) is at least fairly close to the truth about yourself! So you think things like, "Well, they will surely want to know what a great guy I am, how nice and thoughtful I am and how I love my mother…." WRONG. This is what women think about that - "Great guys" do not need to say that they are great. It is evident in what they write and how they make a woman feel - and if you need to say it, then you are probably NOT it. Instead - use a little humor to create attraction for her, which will LEAD to her thinking you are a "Great Guy" (and she will think it's all HER idea). Try saying instead that you are really picky, and that you're trying this online dating thing as a last resort because all the attractive women you meet bore you to tears. You have done several things simultaneously - you have created a challenge that most women with self-esteem cannot help but accept, you have told her in not so many words that you CAN get women, you're not desperate and you have demonstrated your alpha male status by showing that you do not accept whatever comes your way - you can BE picky. The next step will be the inevitable email. Most people try to tell their whole life story in the first email to someone they are attracted to online. If you are emailing HER - make it short and a little challenging. Say something like, "I noticed you said you love long walks on the beach, do you know how GENERIC that is? C'mon, give me something I can WORK with here!" Then see what happens. If she has emailed you, bust her balls on something she said in the email and get her number or a time to meet her at the local coffee shop. Don’t ask! Say, "Hey, give me your number" or "Hey, meet me at Starbucks at 1:00 on Saturday", etc. This leads right into the third tip… You've got to take things OFFLINE as quickly as you can. Once you have the interest of a girl, get her phone number, get a date set up or meet her for coffee as quickly as you can. Not to be creepy or pushy or anything, but simply because the internet mediums - email, IM, texting, whatever, are really…dry ways to communicate. Lots of misunderstandings can happen - not to mention straight up lying. So move it from the net to the real world as fast as you can. One great way to do this and to still allow the woman to feel safe it to propose meeting for coffee or lunch. This is very "non-date-like" and will probably get her agreement a lot faster than proposing to take her to the local mosh pit on Saturday night where you can ply her with alcohol. Article Directory: http://www.articledashboard.com Dating Tips for Men. Get great dating advice for free! |
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