3 Steps To Overceme Fear And Create Effortless Wealth
While building self-esteem in business or relationships, you may be wondering, “How can I finally get passed my fear to get what I want?”
Bob Proctor, known as the father of motivation, calls this the terror barrier! We all go through this when we start something new. This is because we're having trouble mixing new ideas or methods to our old habits or standards.
However, what all successful people know is that once you break through the terror barrier, even more wealth than you thought possible is now easily attainable.
Get passed your fear with this 3-step method:
First, use your fears as a tool to turn yourself around. Once a fear arises, take note of it and write it down. Next to each fear write an affirmation that is exactly opposite.
For example, if you’re thinking, “they won’t approve”, cross it out and write next to it, “What others think of me is none of my business, and I give myself full permission to achieve my dreams.” Or if it’s “I’m not able”, scribble it out and write down, “I come up with new ideas and find people to help me achieve what I want easily”, etc. Use affirmations unique to your situation.
Second, write down at least 3 things you are most good at and enjoy doing. Next to each activity, write down at least one fun way you can use the activity to help others. This is a quick way to focus on what you want and become successful while pursuing it.
Third, have fun. What you want should fill you with a deep sense of joy. You might be focusing on it, but chances are, you're not in the habit of finding the funnest easiest ways to get what you want. Give yourself time to relax and refer to your feeling of joy whenever thinking of what you want.
Since life is never static and always in flux, our desires usually arrive in layers. Success is achieved sooner when we focus on what we want, remind ourselves about it, and keep finding people and resources to simplify the steps to our goals. There's always an easier way to your desired target, you’re just not conscious of it yet.
