Many guys fear talking on the phone with girls, without sounding nervous. There are several ways tips to keeping the conversation flowing and sounding confident. If you follow these tips conversing with females should become a breeze.
If this is the first time you are talking to a girl make sure you stay confident. Your hello and first words are very important. Make sure you introduce yourself if you have not done so already. Then ask the girl how she is. Asking a girl this gives her confidence and provides a question that can be easily answered. Once you have introduced yourself and asked basic introductory questions starting asking things like “what do you enjoy doing”. Always be sympathetic towards her. If she says something like “work has really stressed me out” try to help her out and show her you are someone she can lean on and talk to.
Another way to make the conversation more comfortable is by making her laugh. Guys who can make are girl laugh are always loved. This relaxes them and makes her feel much more comfortable. Girls are very good at picking up little signs. If you sound tired she might think she is boring you. Be sure to focus 100% on her and not get distracted with other things.
The best way to get the conversation going is asking questions. “What are you doing this weekend”, “are you seeing someone right now”. This will jump start the conversation. She will ask questions of you. Answer her questions full and be up front with her. She will probably be able to pick up if you are lying.
