3 Ways To Put Some Love In Your Life!

Do you want a little more love in your life? Perhaps you’re one of the many people who count on others to “make you feel loved.” Do you know that makes others feel like being in a relationship with you is a lot of work?

Here’s the thing: when you reconnect with the love that’s already your natural state, your relationships with others will take on an entirely new level of joy and ease! When you no longer need others to “make you feel good and whole,” you’ll only be able to add to their lives!

Try these three ways of reconnecting with your natural state of love.

Spend time doing things you love
As adults, many of us have learned to look on fun and enjoyment as “luxuries” that most of us can’t afford. We take ourselves and our “responsibilities’ very seriously, and see passions and hobbies as a low priority. This is a huge mistake!

When you do things you love, you’re doing the things that you were put here to do!
Think about how you felt the last time you engaged in something you love doing. You were happy, lost track of time, and totally focused on the moment.

What do you think would happen if you were in this state more often? How might you feel about yourself? How would others feel when they’re around you?

Make a list of the things you love doing. And commit to start doing at least one each week!

Treat yourself like your own best friend
The best thing you can do for the people you love is to take great care of you. You see, when you take care of you, it eases the responsibility of others to do it for you. You’re able to share joy, laughter, and love with others.

How well are you treating yourself? It’s funny that we often treat ourselves poorly, yet expect others to treat us well.

What would happen if you spoke and treated yourself as you would your best friend? How much more love would you then have to share with others? I truly believe we “teach” others to treat us by the way we treat ourselves. And, when you take better care of you, you’ll find that others treat you better as well!

Rate your agreement with this statement on a scale of 1 to 10: “I treat myself like I would treat my best friend.” Commit to taking an action that will move you closer to a 10. This could be a physical action or changing the way you talk to yourself. If you’re not sure what to do, ask your best friend how you treat them for some ideas.

Pay attention to the resources around you
If you find it hard to love yourself, reach out to those who know how! There are so many wonderful books, coaches, and self-development opportunities out there. Ask someone you admire what resources they’ve used. Or go to the bookstore self-help section, and see what books or CDs “call out to you.” I’ve had clients who have literally had the very book they need fall off the bookshelf in front of them as they were walking by. You see, once you have a clear desire, the Universe conspires to show you the way to accomplish it. So pay attention to the clues it is giving you!

Put a little love in your life and watch your life get better every day!

By: Debbie Delgado

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