4 Reasons Why You Need To Improve Your Self-esteem

There are numerous situations in life makes it especially hard to stay abreast when the environment and those around you keep dragging you down with their negativity and ill intentions.

#1: Adapting to the Crab Environment
Beware of the Crabs theory where everyone else is jostling to get up that corporate ladder and before anyone can be a crab higher, the other crabs is all ready to pull you down. We work together with blind bulldozers, brown-nosers, gossip mongers, never ending whiners, soundless backstabbers, motionless snipers, maniac controllers, naggers, chronic complainers, vicious exploders, abstinent patronizers. All these types of people will pose bad times for your self-esteem. This is where uncultivated people usually flourish. No one will remember your effort even if you miss all your meals or stay out in the office overnight. Frequently, you are left with all the work without help from involving parties and the bad news is that they will do anything to take credit from what you have done. Keep clear of this; it will breakdown your self-esteem. Be prepared to compete in a fair race that is what matters to your heart.

#2: The ever changing world
Changes challenge our principles and test our ability to adapt and reinvent the way we work. Changes will make life tough during transition and for the too many out there, we wanted to avoid any changes. Changes usually mean additional stress, misery and tough time ahead for us. Human function just like water always flow in the path of the least obstructions, we do not want changes whether it would equate to a better tomorrow for ourselves. For too many of us, changes did not sink in well and the pain simply prolong as we spend more energy fighting it than working to get the best out of the new modification. Thus our self-esteem experiences a long downtime and so are those around us. Yes, it may be hard as rock initially but all these reforms usually provide the best opportunity to improve our self-esteem when you make up your mind to make it work for you.

#3: Negativity of Mankind
Mankind crave for Negative News and there is always some media either the newspapers, magazines, TV, internet or any imaginable media will be there to spice up the news. The reality is people love negativity and they demand for more and that is the chief reasons why media swear by that to triple their sales and popularity. Don't let your mindset get drag down by it and got all wrap up with the negativity of the surrounding. To protect our self-esteem, we must know how to make the good out of the worst news and stay afloat in the midst negativity.

#4: You are what you were
The way you behave in situations are more or less determine by a mixture of
a. Your genetic code,
b. Your experience (Fear and Greed)
c. Your belief,
e. Your Crowd (spouse, circle of friends).
You have your own personality and they are very dissimilar from anyone else in this world or the past. You can never acquire failure or success unless you incite yourself to. How positive you can maintain in any conditions depends totally on what blending of traits you accumulated so far. Does all these combination back your self-esteem or suck you downward to an infinite downward spiral? Fortunately, this mixture can be relearned, you can pick up from other people's experience and learn from those who are successful.

Your very own Starter Guide to Success in Life
Occasionally, life may make you wonder if there is a thing such as inborn talented leaders or motivators. The answer is a straight - "NO!" Being positive and keep positive is what you choose in life. There is no fixed rule or standard in building self-esteem because life is ever evolving and thus it doesn't allow a one size fits all solution. Hence, it is totally up to you to keep on evolving yourself and build your self-esteem using the chain of events in life as your sandpaper. In the battle of life, we are always allowed to select the weapon and armors of choice to fight with. You can wear a bullet proof armor to protect yourself against the onslaught of the world of negativity bullets or play the knight in that rusty old antique armor that is totally useless against the raging bullets of changes of the modern. Throughout the course of battle, we will be hit but our bullet proof armor (willingness to accept changes) can definitely absorb lots of damage to your self-esteem. The change which comes from deep within us is driven by unconditional willingness and belief in a better tomorrow. The Armor of evolution that we wear protects our 3 precious mind states: Our attitude, our behavior and our positivity. Keep yourself contented and happy. Be appreciative and ever ready to shower others with compliment when opportunities arrived. Halt being a crab! Keeping positive in life and build that extra shield your self-esteem needed to endure the assault from the outside world . Hence, your very own starter guide to self-improvement.

By: Steven Yip

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