Have you ever wondered nice guys finish last and why women say they just want to meet a "nice guy" but in reality almost never ends up with one?
Well here's 7 reasons why nice guys finish last.
Logically speaking, women should want a nice guy, I mean is just so nice and caring. He'll always be there for her, he'll do anything for her, he'll cross the oceans just to make her smile...
I mean who wouldn't want a guy like that?
At least that's what Hollywood films tell you.
But in reality, women hate nice guys...
Why is this the case though?
I found this topic to be interesting enough to do some research on it and write about this topic!
The topic 7 reasons why nice guys always finish LAST.
1. They are way too needy and nice - nice guys often are perceived to be spineless. That is they will bend over backwards just to please the women they are pursuing. That's the thing though. Women, like all people are not interested in things when they can easily get it. If he is happy to be her backup, why should she want to make him anything but the backup?
2. He thinks of her way too highly - the nice guy believes that for some reason, as long as he is nice enough to her, she will somehow realize that he is the one for her because he is just so damn nice then she'll somehow magically fall in love with him and they will happily be married forever after... Sorry guys... it just doesn't work this way.
3. He makes her out as if she's a Goddess - for the guys who have seen the movie The 40 Year Old Virgin, he "puts the pussy on a pedestal". The nice guy constantly demonstrates to a woman that he is not worthy of her attention and that she is just so much better than him. If that's the case, then why would she want to be with someone who's not as good as her?
4. He makes his entire universe revolve around her - By doing this, the nice guy thinks that he is showing to the woman that he is caring and thinks of her as being important. But in reality he is just letting her know that clearly he does not have priorities in life and does not have better things to do but think about her - what a loser.
5. He doesn't try to touch her - the nice guy likes to respect women so much that he avoids any physical contact of any sort. He somehow thinks by doing this he is a gentleman. What he doesn't realize is that by doing this he is letting the woman know that he is too scared to be around her!
6. He always asks - The nice guy thinks, the nice thing to do would be asking for permission to do things. Eg. "may I hold your hand". Guys this is unattractive and kills the mood. Children ask for permission. Nice guys ask for permission. That's why neither of them get sex.
7. He takes her too seriously - The nice guy takes the women way too seriously and cares too much for what she has to say. He is emotionally attached before he is even in a relationship! Now how creepy is that !
I hope after reading this article you will identify some of the things that you should not be making so you can change it!
In short, nice guys finish last, because they do not bring any entertainment value to the life of the women they are interested in.
Women are emotional creatures and you need to engage them in a manner that will bring them up and down on the roller coaster ride of feelings! That's why bad boys and jerks get women - they understand this and use it to their advantage!
Remember, stop being a nice guy and start being more playful, fun and entertaining. Learn more about why Nice Guy Finish Last here:Nice Guys Finish Last
Tease her for goodness sake and don't take things so seriously!
About the author, Maurice Jackson.
Maurice has been studying seduction and pickup for the past few years and has personally reviewed hundreds of courses, ebooks and training manuals. You should check out his review of a NLP Seduction course that hypnotizes women into bed - literally: Speed Seduction Review
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