A Serious Kind Of Injustice

How many of us have never experienced what is to be back stabbed? How painful it is to know that our friends suspected us unreasonably, talked against us in our absence and judged us without giving a chance to air our side and present our defense. I believed this is a “serious form of injustice” to judge a friend as unreliable and crooked without hearing our side and listening to our hurts.

Sometimes, we do it in the privacy of our minds. We process our suspects in our minds and judge them. Later on we allow our judgments to turn into prejudice and then turn our injustice into resistance, then to resentment and then to revenge. All these processes taking place in the privacy of our minds. Often times, we use breakfast, coffee-break, lunch break, or dinner parties to talk against one another. Here, we influence one another by our “insinuations,” “gossips” and “insinuations.” We excuse ourselves by calling these occasions as party talks. The name is gossip. To gossip is to talk with someone against somebody. When that person we talk against trust us and love us, we have really also fallen into back fighter.

Certainly, we have used our gift of speech not for the sake of life and love. A lot of words from our lips have brought hurts and pain even death to some. No one could deny what is to be back stabbed, and for one thing sure nobody likes a backstabber. The psychological suffering of our own friend betraying us is even more serious and more painful than the pain that our enemies infliction us. If we lack money, all we need is money and our problem is solved. However if our pain is psychological, and we are suffering from loneliness, from the indifference of friends and love one, it cannot be relieved by something which we can purchase at the “mall”. It can only be solved by even more love. It is understandable to have our enemies hurt us.

By: Nat Seeley

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