Adults, If You Want To Impact Your Children- Look At Yourselves

Today I had the privilege of working with a group of youths in a way that I hope will impact them in their future lives around drugs and alcohol.These were what are often called 'at-risk' youths. Yet through their young, and incredibly honest eyes I got to see some things. First I saw that we don't often give young people credit for being as wise as they are. Then I saw and heard that our young people see the problem with substances, and they know it is there. Even if it is their own problem.

And they are very smart. So when so many adults have alcohol problems and the world calls alcohol legal, our youth see that as odd. Apparently legalization has nothing to do with safety, they are quick to note. So then of course our youth can also argue 'why not drop the con about safety, and make every other unsafe drug legal too.' Let's not forget, the youths note, the adults were the ones that started this whole mess in the first place. So why is it on us to change it?

Parents, do you cry that your children are using alcohol and drugs? Are you upset that they sneak out to parties and steal beer from your refrigerators and Jack Daniels from your liquor cabinet. Here are two things you can do.

1) Stop whatever you do with alcohol and drugs that is not kosher (Get help if you need to.)

2) Start telling them the truth
"It's a do what I say, not what I do, world when it comes to alcohol and drugs. And it makes absolutely no sense."

If you admit that, at least your children can trust your word. Which is a good start for your family and the world.

By: Lorelei F

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Lorelei F is a Writer, Speaker, and Activist who works for enlightenment and has coined the term Second Hand Addict. Visit her blogs at www.secondhandaddiction.blogspot.com and howtomanifestanythingyouwant.blogspot.com/