Are You A Negative And Single Woman?

I spent a lot of my life single being negative. I was the one at the table who would wonder why everyone else got to have a great relationship while I kept getting rejected time after time. And I would make it known to everybody how I felt.

During this time I would tell myself it was for different reasons like they weren’t attracted to my looks or the guy just wanted to be single but now I realize that every guy that showed interest me, actually had interest in me. I just screwed it up by opening my mouth and saying what was on my brain without thinking about it. And most of the time it was negative.

You know how there’s that group of people that always sit around and complain? They never have anything good to say even about stuff that is 100 percent good. Well I used to love to sit in these egos based groups and join in the complaining. It gave me a sense of belonging with them. I would then carry out my sense of ‘I hate everything’ into the world with me and project it on to these poor guys who just wanted to get to know me better.

Since I got that sense of belonging with my complaining group I felt that I would get that sense of belonging with everyone.

Actually looking at it now there are a lot of people in this world who are more than happy to join into a conversation about something negative and feel united about how much this sucks or that’s stupid.

This may be how to join you local posse at work but it’s not how to get a guy attracted to you.

It doesn’t matter if you’re just venting to a guy. Guys don’t do that. It’s not in their nature. When they complain about something it actually bothers them. They are not like women who just vent about the problem and then feel better just because they got to give a shout out to what’s bothering them.

A guy is looking for someone who is going to add positive things to their life not negative things. If a guy can sense that you are already complaining about the small stuff he’s wondering how you are going to react to the big stuff.

And for heaven’s sake don’t complain about your friends in front of him especially when you just are getting to know each other. If you complain about how your best friend is always flirting with other guys or how she ditches you for any guy that comes along then he’s going to wonder what else you are unhappy with in your life. How would he be able to make you happy if your best friend doesn’t make you happy?

By: Gabriella

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