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As Time Goes By
When I think my today was as same as yesterday, we have stopped to grow up. Growth is a journey which we must pay the price, and in this process we always pick up and throw away something. When someday we go to the end of the world, finally we will find what we pick up and throw away is the same thing, which is the memory. The following things are what we gradually lost in the process of growing. Compassion Another explanation of mature is ease, easily facing disaster, in other words, is as hard as the nether millstone. The beggars in the streets continuously destroy our compassion. Gradually we have already faced others’ tears without any facial expressions. I know I am becoming mature sorrowfully. Surprise How long have not you feel a mood called surprise? Have you remember a friend of yours suddenly visit your home and said "hi, big surprise."That must be the most familiar image of surprise. Now, in this busy city filled with personal privacy there was no such surprise. I will take suddenly received gifts as a surprise, but this society always reminds me of no free lunch in this world. We have learnt all things have reasons and we have become to analyze the relation between chance and inevitability. We know that there is no absolute contingency, and inevitability is always displayed by chance. When we come to understand the necessity of the contingency, all lose sense of mystery and all have no surprise. Naive To tell the truth, I like this word Naïve very much. I think if one is very naive, the potential characteristic is a temptation to the opposite sex, a deadly temptation. But conscious awareness is awareness. In reality if someone would say you are innocent, you may feel ashamed, because the behind word of innocence is childishness. We are afraid of being childish, and we dare not to be naive. Moved Man has said that life doesn’t lack of something moving us, but we have no eye and mind to find them. Before I was always easy to be moved by my lover, or a friend, even for a moving movie or TV series, moved to burst out laughing, moved to weep aloud. But now, movies and TVs often make me sniffy; only the minimal moments touch me. We were afraid of separation before, which made us sad and tearing. As time goes by, friends come and go, and the scene of separation happened repeatedly again and again which made us insensitive gradually. Now, we are also frightened, not for farewell scenes of tears, but for no tears. We all think that we should feel miserable when we face separation, but the scene that everyone look s not miserable makes us much more painful. Gradually, everything giving and receiving would go without saying. We have been no longer touched. Fantasy From childhood till now we are often told that nobody can live in fantasies, because the world of fantasy is absolutely wonderful, but away from the world of fantasy, psychological gap always makes us overwhelming. However, I want to say, man must be happy when he is dreaming; happy at least at that moment of the fantasy. Remember that? Every day we like to dream beautiful future before bedtime, lying on the bed to imagine our favorite dreams which will do better. In recent years, I often unconsciously interrupt myself to dream, whenever in fantasy, another voice would say, boring, impossible, and then I went to sleep depressed. As time goes by, more and more people dare not to mention their fantasy. Meet As we all know men’s desire is endless. The more you see and hear, the more you want. When you stand by, you come to want to sit, then want to lie, which is human’s disease. Literally it is constant pursuit, actually a kind of discontent. People will gradually become a wolf forever searching for food. It is much sadder that the wolf knows enough, but humans never know, and the pheasants in our claws haven't finished eating, eyes are pegged to the front hare. Also it is sad that the one don't hold larks in hands, but to chase the hawk. Finally they will get nothing. Happiness lies in contentment. Actually, in a word, happiness is the emotion that we most gradually lost. Article Directory: http://www.articledashboard.com To find out more about e-commerce platform, learn more at China wholesale . |
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