Avoid Online Dating Mistakes: Physical Meeting Is Very Crucial.

Every person who can be labelled a 'lonely heart' is very excited by the idea of online dating sites because you do not have to shout to all around you. Before the age of computers people used to place their personal ads on classified categories in newspapers and magazines and any written media. Internet came to provide the instant gratification of direct feed back. If a single man or woman liked your personal ad, then they would post a letter to you and insert a recent photo and a phone number. It is quite a while before you get the letters. I have talked with a man who received around 200 replies and spent the rest of the year having first dates with the women and the next arranging for second dates. Online dating mistakes can be eliminated because the feedback is instant.

If you are a man who is familiar with online dating, you must have noticed that women lie a lot about some details. For instance age, weight, and how recent their photo is. They do not do it with bad intentions so we can just say that they can be quite misleading. One of the online dating mistakes people do is spending a lot of time talking on phone. You can communicate online with the interested singles or even using a phone but never before face to face meeting. This a common mistake that leaves many people disappointed. You might be investing in someone who lies about him/herself. Only use the phone to set the first face to face meetings where you will see the age and may be gauge the weight. May be she sounds like a very beautiful angel but in real sense she is among the-not-so-pretty category.


If you have just been communicating on air or online, change your tactic and only make calls when you are sure that is the person you had in mind. Meet in a safe place most probably a public coffee joint. Do not prolong the date and do not meet at night. Daytime is the best place. Many people make online dating mistakes of spending money or even trusting someone they have never seen physically. You might think you will automatically like them which is a common misconception. When you meet someone online whom you suspect you will like, organize a physical meeting as soon as possible. If your potential online date insists on chatting online or on phone first, drop them and move to the next person.

You can only get to know a person when you meet them in person. The curtains are drawn and you can read the facial expressions, the body language and work on your dating goal. It is easy to assume a role and only display what you want known online and still display a different personality online. You and i assume that what is on the personal ad is the complete truth. It is among the online dating mistakes that people make. There is a likely cyber-personality and the real personality. A recent photo is a split second moment showing you how that person can look like. When you meet in person, you can evaluate how they look like when they smile, laugh or frown. Heed my advice.

By: Francis K Githinji

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