It is well-known fact all over the world that building of the relationship between men and Russian women is a very difficult thing. In different countries people have different points of view concerning this question.
Russian brides differ from others, first of all, by their beauty, of course and by their serious attitude to dating, relationships and marriage. That is why it is very important for men to be patient and not to hurry the events doing everything step by step and building your relationship brick by brick.
In the process of building relationships psychologists pick out three stages. Lets look at each of them.
Stage 1: Formal acquaintance
People just learn some information about each other. It is very important to notice that this information doesn't oblige both people for anything. They shouldn't show what they can in joint life, they shouldn't prove their human value in this or that quality. And if there is no any aversion you may continue.
Stage 2: Emotionally significant relations, intimacy based on common interests, points of view, etc.
It isn't necessary to be a "psychological twin" of your new friend. Your emotional intimacy can be based on mutual learning - accepting or declining some points of view, some disputes. By the way, very often mutual sympathy appears exactly as a result of dispute, just like truth. The main thing is absence of the real indifference, which is done just for effect. For example, if Russian woman tries to sustain a pause in order to show the pride.
Stage 3: Possible appearance of the intimate or matrimonial relations
Speaking about these three stages, you should remember that each of them mustn't last for months and years. Everything depends on the structure of your personality, temperament, situation. Moreover, if the first and especially the second stage lasts for too long, people will know each other excessively well. And very often it leads to so called "fusion" of the feelings.
So, don't hurry up to live and don't hasten the relations. Everything is good in its season, and if you hurry up now, you may regret about it later... as this haste may lead to destruction of the relations which you have been building for so long time. Just trust in fortune and let her make everything like it should be!
Oksana Boichenko
OksanaLove, Inc. www.oksanalove.com
The matchmaker with 12 years of experience in the online dating business. You can find your second half – just visit our dating site and meet your Russian bride among the thousands of beautiful Russian women.
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