You're working out at the gym, minding your own business, when you spot that gorgeous thing you've had your eyes on for days now...just a few feet away from you. "Maybe I should go over there and say something" you think to yourself...Or maybe not. Well, what's the worst that could happen? Let's see, they could run out of the room laughing at the top of their lungs. Ok, that is bad...but what are the chances that would really happen. Let me tell you. None. Zero. Zilch. Nada.
"Nobody likes me, everybody hates me, guess I'll go eat worms". Is this your motto in life? Listen up. It means you have no confidence.
Why do you do this to yourself? Why do you build everything up to be so extremely important in your mind that you just don't have the guts to "go after it" anymore. Don't build things up so high that you feel you can't measure up to them. You can. By the way, that hottie at the gym...they would have talked to you. They were going to ask YOU out, did you know that? Hey, don't come crying to me now that you missed out on the love of your life.
It's reality time. You lost your mojo. Hey, maybe you never had it to begin with. But either way, your confidence is definitely gone. But the great news is that you can have amazing confidence...not faked either. It's fast and super easy to do. You don't have to be afraid of making new friends, or trying new experiences. This is the only life you are given. Why waste it hiding away in your little apartment playing Sony Playstation and eating chips & salsa day and night. I know its fun, but that's not the point.
The point is that there is more to the world around you than the 4 walls you keep yourself locked up in most of the time. Get out there. Make some new friends, and make some amazing new memories while you're at it.
I know. It's scary. You don't think anyone could possibly like you, or be interested in anything YOU had to say, right? No, I am not a mind reader. I just know how you operate. Don't you want to finally stand tall, and know in your heart that you really do deserve all the wonderful attention lavished onto you? Don't you want to realize deep down that yes, you are a very important person, and have a lot to share with the world?
There are a few simple tricks to creating amazing confidence in yourself. Don't be afraid. Take a chance. Open yourself to an entirely new world of possibilities and new experiences. It's time to get your confidence sky high.
