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Controlling Woman Dooms Marriage From 'i Do"
I did, just this weekend, in fact. And, it wasn't a pretty sight. I was invited to the wedding of the son of some friends. The bridesmaids wore beautiful red gowns, carried beautiful flowers, and were attended by attractive groomsmen. The bride was ethereal in her gorgeous beaded and red embroidered wedding dress. The groom was tall, handsome and... Doomed. To a life of hell. Or divorce -- whichever comes first. Am I pessimistic about their future together? You bet! Unless she changes her tactics and soon, the bright first blush of lust and infatuation will wear off and he'll be sorry he ever asked for her hand in marriage. Not only was the bride ordering her new husband around, she extended those orders to her newly acquired in-laws and family friends. When she left our table after handing down her demands, the ten of us sat in silence just looking at each other for several long seconds. I know it was her day and she was likely very stressed out and high-strung right about then. But to descend upon the group of us in public and bark out her demands was not an attractive sight and didn't reflect very well on her new husband's choice of wife. Not a very good beginning to her new life as a married woman. Had this new bride requested gracefully, we would have gladly done as she wished -- without a second thought. But we did have second and third thoughts. One of the men at the table commented that she may be a beautiful woman, but not so beautiful that he'd put up with that behavior on a routine basis. The mother of the bride simply closed her eyes and slowly shook her head, dismayed that her dear son was subjected to that behavior, and saddened to think this was his future. Several others were taking bets on how long the couple remained married. True, it's nothing to do with us, really. But imagine how embarrassed and humiliated the young groom will feel when he reflects back on her behavior. Men do *not* dream of living with a controlling, demanding woman. They would never consciously choose to live with someone who was rude -- to themselves or to their friends and family. With repeated episodes of this controlling, demanding attitude, the young groom may find his love for her slowly eroding before his very eyes. Then, it will all come down to whether he still loves her enough to subject himself, and anyone he associates with, to her controlling attitude. If not, I'm afraid divorce may very likely be in their future. ### Article Directory: http://www.articledashboard.com Want to experience a more enjoyable personal relationship? Racine will show you how. Click here for your complimentary report, *5 Ways To Keep His Interest*=> www.HypnoticYou.com/5Ways.html |
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