There is more to dating than just the choice of words you use. When it comes to dating, nothing is more important than your body language. 'Speaking' the right dating body language is important because it tell your date what kind of person you are. The success of your date depends on your body language.
The reason why the body language is so powerful is because it speaks directly to the subconscious mind. It wins over verbal communication at the time. If, for example, you are excite about something and yet you keep your arms folded, your body language communicates the opposite. But if you use the wrong words, all you need to help you win your date over is when your dating body language is well spoken.
There is another reason why dating body language is so important and that is because it could helps create attraction instantly. But 'speak' it wrongly and you would not only turn off a date, you would never get a second chance to create attraction. Sorry if I may sound harsh. But whether I'm harsh or not, it is the truth and if you want to success with your dates, you must learn to use the dating body language properly.
Below, I have outlines 5 dating body languages that will help you communicate effectively.
1. Maintain good eye contact: Why do people look away when others are talking to them? Discomfort or lack of interest. If you look away when your date is talking, your body language simply communicates feelings of tension. Conversely, when you have difficulty making eye contact, your body language communicates insincerity. To avoid communicating these negative messages, maintain good eye contact both when you talk and when you listen.
2. Where possible, let your body speak. Use gestures, smiles, physical touches and winks to communicate, slowly. Just do it in moderation.
3. Do not fold your arms tightly as if you are feeling uncomfortable. That could be translated to mean that you are feeling insecure. Lay your hands open to your date. For guys, show you are comfortable by spreading your legs and occupying as much space as necessary.
4. Speak slowly and calmly. Do not rush your words. That gives the impression that you are confident and secure. Women are highly attracted to men who speak slowly and confidently.
5. Keep on smiling. This does not mean that you should smile all the time. Only tensed people do so. Keeping your smile alive means that you only smile whenever it is necessary. Follow your smile with close eye contact. A lively smile is not only contagious, it also crosses all cultural boundaries.
But what if you can't use these dating body language habits effectively? You can learn it like you learn habits. Practice. Go out more. Practice what you have learned by meeting more singles. It would not be automatic. This is because your present body language habits were acquired over a long period. So it would take a while to replace the negative habits with positive ones. With constant practice, you will overcome your current negative dating body language.
