Dating Tips For Men: Avoiding Mistakes On The First Date

Most dating tips for men include stunts and schemes that usually don't work because they are all about making you look good and confident without taking into consideration how women actually want the date to go about. Men are often so caught up in their own self that they make serious mistakes that will not only get them ditched before dessert, but their reputation could be ruined too. Word gets around a lot faster among the ladies.

Mistakes to Avoid

Here are some mistakes to avoid that most dating tips for men fail to mention. First, save your questions for later; this is not a job interview. The minute the woman feels she has to work hard to get your attention, she'll be running as fast as her heels can carry her.

Don't be boring and serious by talking all about yourself, the economy and politics. For one thing, before you even open your mouth, listen first. Her line of thought shows what she's interested in. If she asks about or mentions music, try to explore that topic for awhile until you can get more of a grasp of her interests.

Do not bring her gifts. It makes you look old-fashioned, desperate and dodgy. If you bring gifts without even meeting your date first, how will you know if she even likes them. She'll get the impression that you do this with every other girl.

Save your lame pick up lines. Girls hate them! It's so insincere and awkward. They'd spell l-o-s-e-r all over the napkin instead of giving you their full attention.

Do not scrimp on dressing up. If your date is a colleague or someone you see daily, make sure you change your clothes. A woman feels special if you go out of your way to look nice for her. No need to be so fancy, just choose a material different from what you wear to work. Say slacks instead of jeans, leather shoes instead of sneakers and so on. They remember what you wore that last week. Yes, even your white shirt underneath.

Never fish for compliments. This is just so pathetic when the guy asks if you like his tie, his choice of restaurant and so on. Confidence is sexy. If you have to ask, most likely it's not as great as you think.

Being the Best Date

With so many dont's, I wouldn't blame you if you'd skip the date and stay at home. But the thing is, make it something fun for both of you. Go to a place with a nice view, great food or a great band or any place that could be a great ice breaker.

Ask, listen, then ask some more. Everyone wants to talk about themselves so do not steal this opportunity from them. With these dating tips for men surely you'll go further than the first date.

By: Russell Strider

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