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Different Between Winner And Loser
Perhaps some may say: “If only my father is a millionaire, I’ll have the model to start my business empire that conquer the world” “If only I had a Rich Dad like Robert Kiyosaki, I’ll be able to learn about business and money, which makes me a Millionaire too” “If only the apple fall not on Sir Isaac Newton’s head but mine, I’ll be the one who discover law of universal gravitation.” If only, I stop saying if only and take action. Napoleon Hill was one of the earliest wise man who studies about philosophy of success and writes about it; on why some people become so successful while other stay failure. If you’re yet to achieve success in your life, first thing you should get to know is what drag you down, and block you from becoming success, stopping you from reaching your target in life. By understand more about the different between winner and loser; success and failure; you’re one step nearer to become successful one day. 1. Positive Thinking Vs Negative Thinking Successful people always think positive, whether it comes to opportunity, action nor mindset: There’re 2 men who travel to a place located at Africa, planning to sell shoes. Mr. A found out that none of the people there wear shoes, thus he feel very sad and thinking that there’s no market there, and he won’t be able to sell any shoe there; Mr. B which always think positive, feels very happy, because none of them wearing shoes, means the market is still fresh and huge! Thus he start to sell and educate people there to wear shoes, in a short time, everyone buy shoes from Mr. B, and he makes a huge profits out of it. Again, this compares how a positive person can achieve much more than a negative person, in action and achievement. 2. Friends with other Positive People Vs Friends with Negative People To grows and become a better self for tomorrow compare with today, your environment and people you stick with should be better and positive than you, so you will get charge and grow within. Positive people prefer to stick with other positive people because they can learn and networking with them which will grows them better and richer. Think about this, if people around you are all negative and complain about life every day, how positive can you be, when all the information you absorb are negative? 3. Hardworking Vs Laziness This is obvious, if you’re to build a tallest pyramid that last for thousand years, the based and structure must be strong and this need plenty of effort, bit by bit, from a solid based till finishing the top. But if someone who is lazy doing this huge project, he is either unfinished or build an unreliable pyramid which fall and collapse very soon. If Albert Einstein is lazy and only take few experiment when trying to invent Light bulb, will he successfully invent a reliable light bulb which benefits millions of people? Compare this: One that makes 10,000 USD sales in a single day (and only 1 day), and another that makes 500 USD sales every day. I believe you can answer this and choose which will end up winning and successful. *Of course, 10,000 USD everyday is much better. XD (Here I’m comparing hardworking with laziness). 4. Humble Vs Egoist One important thing that differentiates winner and loser is that winner or people are humble and willing to empty your cup and continue to learn everyday; while the poor or the loser will always think that the world revolves around them, that they’ve know everything in this world and stop learning. For most of the cases happening around, when a person finish their study in school or university, is the day they stop reading and learning. Unless you are willing to learn more, else you won’t be able to achieve more things in your life than you have now. Knowledge open wide your eyes to the world of possibilities and opportunities. 5. Consistency Vs Inconsistency Like what I’ve share in No. 3 Hardworking Vs Laziness, one that makes 10,000 USD in a day and only one day; and another that only make 500 USD every day. Consistency relates to how hardworking and the level of commitment you put on your projects and workload. If you plant a flower and only water it when you feel like watering, the flower won’t last long. Our human body is like a train, starting will always be harder, in order to create the momentum to move, but once it start moving, it will go smoothly and easier, this apply to everything you do in life too. What if you are to work on something few days and stop for days then start again? It takes much more energy and desire compare with you doing it consistent. 6. With Plan Vs Without Plan A few minutes of preparation and understanding is more important than taking action recklessly for hours. It is like you study and understand the structure of a maze; draw out in advance before entering it. A person without plan will only end up wasting much more time and energy on hitting the hard wall repeatedly. If a stair is un-plan, in which you steps on 4 > 2 > 8 > 1 > 5 to reach the next level, instead of the correct one which goes like this: 1 > 2 > 3 > 4 > 5. You would have a very hard time in order to reach the upper level using stairs. Same apply to life, with plan or without plan; the result is very much different and big contrast. 7. Listen and Observe Vs Talk Non stop I read a funny quote recently, saying that: “Wise man speaks because they have something to say; Fools because they have to say something” by Plato. Indeed, Rich people observe and learn more than talk, while loser always fight for every chance to speak out to prove that he is somebody. We human or animals too have 2 ears and 1 mouth. Why not 2 mouths and 1 ear? It might a hidden symbolize that we should listen more than we speak. When we listen, we absorb new things; but when we speak, we are just rolling back the same tape in our brain. Learn and take action from it is always better than keep on talking without any real action supporting. 8. Act Now Vs Act Later There’s a big different between act now and act later (or even not action at all), as in today’s world, it’s about how fast you are in everything. How fast for you to build a 500 million users social network that rules the social media world before other does; how fast you grab the opportunity compare with other that still in doubt; how fast you reach the ending point before others does. Losers always doubt, on every action they should take. Should I? What if? I scare.. Later I will… Those are most common thoughts running on a loser mind, while winner already take action and leap a few miles in front of loser, and even already create a huge achievement out there, while loser still doubt and “Act Later”. Winners keep learning and improving, while most important, keep moving. There’s no perfect preparation in everything, most of the time, winner keep learning on the process of achieving. Thus they are more experience and more knowledgeable when comes to “How to Achieve a Goal?”, and they have much more chance to achieve success than loser that keep dragging things to tomorrow, and tomorrow. 9. Learn From Mistake Vs Never Learn From Mistake Everything that you did before is a stepping stones that help form a better you of today compare with yesterday, if you learn from the past. Losers never learn from mistakes, thus they will definitely repeating the same mistakes again and again. Past is experience that taught you well on how to do better on today. Learn from the past and absorb the lessons taught by experience. Some losers afraid of making mistake, thus they are not trying and even take any action at all! It’s how you treat your failure, and grows stronger within. 10. Admit Failure and Change Vs Excuses and Reason Winners learn from failure and make a change out of it, they know that it’s failure and mistakes that stop them from achieving their goal. What will losers do when making a mistake? They just simply find tons of excuses and reason why they’re not achieving the target, always playing the role of “Victim” in life. Losers will always point the fingers to someone and something else, as long as it is not themselves. 11. Stay Focus Vs Always Get Distract Winners stay focus, while losers always get distract by everything around. Internet is one of the most distract thing to many people, as the online information are too many, and a page lead to ten pages, you’ll end up lost in “jungle of internet” if yourself discipline is not strong enough. When you get distract, your workload and things on hand will be dragging to longer time in order to finish the same amount of workload that winners spend less time on. The longer time you need to take in order to accomplish a same task, the less efficient you are. When you come back from distraction, you’ll need sometimes to focus back on your workload, while focusing is not yet high, you’ll get distract by other things again, causing no results achieve at the end. Winners have higher self discipline and self control, so they are more effective and efficient, producing higher results in less time consuming. If your attitude is right, it will lead you to achieve more positive things and results in life. Attitude of self discipline, positive thinking, hardworking and others will eventually lead you to more achievement in life. Article Directory: http://www.articledashboard.com Wong Jia Jun www.journeytopeak.com Pursuing Success, Freedom & Happiness in Life A personal growth and development blog that provide a place for people to seek for continuous inspiration and motivation through out the journey to peak. |
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