Failure And Success

I once read that success is only a word, but achieving it is a lifestyle. Isn’t that the truth? How does one deal with the consequences of failure? Do you mope around and sulk about it? Do you lose valuable sleep over the failure? If you let it bug you, it will remain with you for ever and you will let it hamper you in trying to set things right. If you permanently stare at the failures in your life, you will never achieve any success. Life is about failures AND success, not only about failures.

Obviously, everyone wants to be successful all the time. The reality however, is that our lives are full of failures, some small and some big. It is how you overcome a failure that will determine whether or not your next try will be successful or not.

Walt Disney said: “The way to get started is to quit talking and begin doing.” So put the failure behind you. Stop talking about it, and start doing something about it. It was only a temporary setback. Immediately start in another direction, head straight for success.

Failing to find accommodation, or a job, or even the right shade of make up, or the best choice in a venue, or the coolest clothing, or the right fragrance for you, should not be the end of the world. It just points you in another direction. Do not dispair; success is just lurking around the corner. If at first you do not succeed, try, try again. Take into account your life style, your preferences and your means. Do not try and imitate someone else. Be your own person.

If you have failed, and your failure affected others, you have to accept the consequences, but once again, do not let it end there. You should try and change the failure into success by whatever means possible. That is what is so wonderful about life; you will most probably get another shot at success. Depending on what the failure was really. Some failures, however, are not that easily fixed. Think about surgery, or accidents, at home, in the traffic or in the air. Think about things beyond your control. If you can change something, then do it. Do not become complacent with failure. Work toward a common goal of success.

Once you achieved success in a venture, no matter how big or small, you will feel and act better. You will be confident and sure of yourself and gladly take responsibility, unlike with failures. Who would want to play the blaming game if you are successful? It just doesn’t make any sense.

Successful people exude an air of confidence and boldness. They are assertive. They dress powerful; they smell powerful and successful and are not scared to boldly wear a special piece of clothing or their favorite fragrance. It is normal to hide after some failure, but it is equally normal to rise up and shine after success, no matter how big or small.

By: Jacob Vah

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