I know most men are thinking, why on earth would a woman fake an orgasm? I can’t even tell you how many times I have heard men say they’ve gotten their partners off every time they had sex and sometimes more than once. Well, I seriously doubt that happened whether they were completely aware of it or not. See, that’s the thing. Women have evolved and gotten really good at being able to fake an orgasm. So, why do they go through so much trouble? Why don’t they just tell their partner and not fake it? Let me explain the reasons why so many women deserve academy awards for their bedroom performance.
The reason’s are simple, they either fake orgasms because they are not receiving the right stimulation and they do not want to let their partner down, or they are trying to speed things up. Even though the reasons are simple, the women behind the reasons are very complex. If a woman has a new partner, well, sex will be completely different. It is unlikely for her to get the stimulation she requires because she is in new territory. Also, she may not be as comfortable and be experiencing anxiety. Some women have never experienced an orgasm through sex, so it feels hopeless to try.
There is hope! For women, there are two types of orgasms. There is the clitoral orgasm and the G-Spot orgasm. Now, for a woman with a new partner, the easiest way to have an orgasm until they become familiar and more comfortable is through clitoral stimulation. Have a small vibrator handy during intercourse and there will be no need for faking. As for the G-Spot orgasm, these are more difficult. It would be best to practice and experiment with a rabbit vibrator or dildos to become more familiar with your body. This way you can head your partner in the right direction (since you know exactly where your spot is).
Now, some women just fake orgasms to speed the process up so they can move on to other things. If this is the case, there are other issues involved. They too feel helpless and hopeless or they were pushed into having sex. Never pressure a woman into sex if you want to avoid her faking an orgasm. If they feel helpless and sex is not as enjoyable as it should be, just follow the suggestions in the above paragraph and viola! Let me know how it ends up! No matter what happens, don't continue to fake orgasms. Let your partner know what's going on so you can have your fair share of pleasure!
