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Flirting Through Text
This being How to text a girl" This question however has a million answers, and depends entirely upon the situation. However, instead of teaching you HOW to text, I'm going to teach you how to almost eliminate the challenge and need for smooth text game COMPLETELY. First off, the most misunderstood belief about texting and getting a positive response from women is that it is solely based upon what you text. This couldn't be more wrong. The most important factor doesn't even take place over the phone. It is the initial meeting or interaction in which you got the phone number that determines her response. I know a guy who would get 10 plus phone numbers a night while out and very rarely ever turned any of these numbers into dates. What the hell?! His problem was not how we was texting these numbers. It was how he was getting their numbers. I, on the other hand, maybe got 3 numbers a night MAX, and would consistently turn all 3 of these into dates. By the end of the week I had been on a new successful date every day while he had perhaps gone on one sketchy date. This also resulted in many more other successes for me. *wink wink* Why was this happening? Was my texting better than his...maybe...But the main factor was HOW I got the numbers. The girl he was texting didn't really know him or feel comfortable meeting up with him. This however was not a issue for me at all. When you go out to meet women and get their numbers your focus has to be quality of the interactions you have, not quantity. Don't focus on getting every girls number in the bar. Instead focus on finding the few girls in the bar that you have a really strong chemistry with. There is ways to create this chemistry with many girls, but that is a topic for another time. Now, when you find these girls and you really hit it off with them (sometimes it may take some looking for at the bar depending on how comfortable you are talking to women) you don't want to just collect their numbers and run off. You goal now is to solidify these numbers and increase their chances to turn into dates without having to do a lot of phone work. How to text a girl to achieve this? First, once you get the girls number do not dismiss yourself. Simply get the number, and continue talking like it is no big deal. Talk to them for at least 5 more minutes.This will make you the cool guy she met and clicked with at the bar, not the stranger who got her number and took off to try and get more. Secondly, whenever I get her number it will be while discussing something we can do together. For example, if you both of you like rock climbing you can mention that you should do it together sometimes...and BAM you got a reason to exchange numbers and a rough idea for plans when you talk again Third, as soon as I get her number I will often immediately call her or text her while we are talking. If she is wearing a blue dress, texting her something like "Wow, this crazy girl in the blue dress will NOT stop hitting on me...SAVE ME!!!" This will bring a lot of humor into the conversation. On top of this, she now recognizes your number on her phone and probably text some smart comment back. The goal of this is when you text her the next day, shes not getting a text from a stranger. Instead, she is now continuing a flirty text conversation with a guy she is familiar with. This will also bring her back to the sexual vibe you guys had the night before. Finally, give her a nick name or plant some funny story or connection you have in her head. When you text her the next day. For example, you talked about her meeting your dog and nicknamed her sniffles. "Hey sniffles, I'm sorry I talked to spike and he said he's not interested in meeting you" Does this sound a bit silly? You bet your toaster stroodles it does. But, think about what it accomplishes 1. Its funny and catches her eye in the middle of a boring day 2. She instantly recognizes who you are, giving you familiarity right off the bat 3. Suddenly shes reminded of all the high funny points of your conversation Now look at all these things we've talked about. By this point your going to have to do VERY little work to schedule a date. Simply asking her to go on a walk with you and your dog or to meet up with you for rock climbing is basically all you have to do. NO CRAZY TEXT GAME REQUIRED At this point your main goal is to simply get her to meet up with you. Do not try and have long text conversations or get to know her. That is what the date is for stupid. PULL THE TRIGGER and arrange a meet up. There are a few thing you can do set your self up for success on the date however. One of my favorites is to tell her I think we should be text boyfriend and girlfriend. This sounds dumb, but if you have a good vibe going it instantly puts you in a flirty role and playing off a couple vibe. You can now have teasing conversations about how great of a relationship you have, or her cheating on you ETC. If you keep this up, when the date comes around you can play off this little game when the date starts and BOOM its already sexually charged. You are now talking like a couple. This totally wipes out the awkward start of a date that must people have to endure. So as you can see, getting a girl to go on a date is not about having sweet "text game". It is about eliminating your need for text game all together. This is simply, how to text a girl Article Directory: http://www.articledashboard.com If your looking for advice on how to text girls who are not totally into you, I have a surplus of articles on texting, meeting, and dating women on College Flirt More specifically I have a few on texting girls and seducing girls that DO NOT like you and things you HAVE to avoid while texting I talk about it all right here. How to Flirt with girls |
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