Funeral Ideas: Ten Thoughts For Organising A Funeral

A funeral is an important part of the way we mark the end of someone's life. It is a difficult time with much to be organised at short notice. But it is important to make sure a funeral is organised that is full of meaning for you and the family. This is a part of the process of mourning. Here are ten considerations for you:

1. Look at The Will

The person who has died might have given some specific instructions about their funeral. Do they want to be interred or cremated? What music do they want? By checking the will, you can be sure you are informed about these.

2. Think About Who Can Help You

Think quietly about who you want to ask to help you with readings, music and all the other arrangements. This can share the burden of the organisation and can share the grief as well. Be careful to not to involve too many people or things can get complicated.

3. Check You Have The Death Certificate

Having the legal death certificate before the funeral is usually a requirement in most countries.

4. Contact Some Professional Help for The Funeral

Most countries have specific legal requirements for funerals. Either a local minister of religion will be able to advise or a local firm of funeral directors or undertakers. These people are not only professional but used to dealing with grief. They can help ease your mind about many practical considerations when you have so much to think about.

5. Think About Money

Funerals are not free. You need to think about the financial implications and ask the professionals about their costs at an early stage.

6. Consider Refreshments after The Funeral

Do you want people to join you afterwards for refreshments. Where will this be? Who can help you?

7. Take Time For Yourself

In the midst of organising a funeral, there can be many things to do. Try not to spend all your time rushing around, but try to take time for yourself to mourn.

8. Consult Your Family

Funerals are a time of strain and even the most harmonious of families can fight as they come together. Take time to consult your family and avoid confrontation. If necessary ask for advice from a religious leader or funeral director.

9. Consider Who Should Give a Eulogy

It can be helpful to have someone talk about the bereaved at the funeral. Think carefully about who you might ask to do this; and whether they will be suitable. A minister or the leader of the funeral can do this for you and will take the time to find out about the bereaved.

10. Consider Music and Readings

Consider carefully what might be read at the funeral to reflect the life of the departed. This can give comfort to everyone. Some people might want to read and take part. Music can play an important part in the ceremony. If you are not musical, do not be afraid to seek advice.

A funeral is an important moment to mark the passing of a life and an important stage in grieving.

By: Emilie Warren

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Dr Emilie Warren has wide experience of helping people cope with grief and bereavement as well as understanding their own fears around death and dying. She is an accomplished writer on the subject, hosting her own website, www.dealingwithdeath.com. She has a Master's degree and a PhD from Cambridge University in England. She is also an ordained Christian minister. For more help visit www.dealingwithdeath.com/funeral-ideas/