After a break up one of the most difficult things to do is get your ex to talk to you. To make things worse, most people go about it in the completely wrong way. Getting your ex to talk to you is necessary in getting your ex back, but you have to do it without looking needy and/or weak. Is there even a way to do this? YES there is... get your ex to call you!
The first step is to make a preliminary contact to them. Do not be threatening or desperate; just say enough to pique their interest. If done correctly, you will not only get your ex to talk to you, but you will get your ex to call you. The catch is that this has to be a message. If they pick up, you better be ready to talk, but if they have been ignoring your calls, this method will work for you.
Of course, now you are asking how to get their interest enough to get your ex to talk to you. It does not have to be anything specific that you say, and should just be kept simple. Do not sound mean, upset, or desperate... just completely casually and joyfully say, "Hey, can you give me a call back sometime? I have something I want to talk to you about." You can and will probably want to edit that to make it fit for you and your ex, but that is the basic idea behind it. Many people have try this technique, but most of them make the mistake of acting like it is some bad emergency or acting angry about it. Acting negative will never get your ex to talk to you.
The most important thing is to know what you are going to say when you get your ex to call you back. They obviously are going to think you had something you wanted to talk to them about, so they will be angry if you have no response. It does not have to be anything fancy at all... remember, simple works.
There are many different things you can say when you get your ex to talk to you, so I will not go into detail here. If you want to see some of the details though, you can check out the site below.
