After a break up or separation the thought that is most likely on your mind is how to get your husband back. It is possible for that to happen. There are steps you need to follow and the following are a good start.
You need to be patient, you can go back to him promising him that you'll change your ways or do anything he wants so you can get back together. You want to keep your contact with him to a minimum. A little hello or a friendly wave are fine. Just don't things that will drive him away from you. The key is to draw him back to you, get him attracted to you again.
It is very important right after a break up to not pester him. Don't call or text him a bunch. Let some time pass, you can even let him know that you are okay with the break up.
As time progresses you can start talking to him a little more, but keep it light and not too involved. Also it is fine for him to see that he is not the most important person in your life. If you're both at a party and you're talking and some of your friends show up, stop the conversation with him and go talk to your friends. Of course, be nice, but the message will be clear.
If he calls you, don't answer the phone and don't return the call for a few hours or the next day, telling him that you have been real busy. You want him to wonder what you have been doing, create a sense of mystery and jealousy.
Here's a video you should watch, by a relationship author, to learn the first steps in getting your ex back. For more information on how to get your husband back and to watch the video go to menwomenloveadvice.com
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