If you or someone you know has been cheated on and you did not understand why this was done, maybe this will shed some light on this difficulty you have had to face.
1) Fear of being alone
Many men have affairs so they do not feel alone, it makes them feel important and that they are not missing out.
2) Fear of losing his charm
Some men cheat for fear of losing their charm they feel they had when they were younger and have a relationship outside their relationship.
3) Fear of being bored
For some men are afraid of being bored with one person because it will ask of him to be open and that maybe difficult for him to be vulnerable.
Some men have difficulty in having the same routine day in day out with the same woman.
4) Fear of commitment
Commitment to one person for the rest of his life is difficult for many men to conceive because this means that he will lost his freedom.
5) Fear of growing old
Growing old is difficult for some men because they feel that it means that they are not good enough and having an extra marital affair help them to feel they still young.
6) Desire to conquer
Having an affair gives some men the feeling of being able to conquer a woman when they set out to do so.
Some men look forward to seeing if they can convince the woman and the act of growing on the hunt to see they can have a woman by seducing her with his words, action and the way he dresses gives him the feeling of being desired.
7) Low self esteem
Some men have a low self esteem of themselves and being to charm a woman to have a relationship makes him feel that he is good enough.
Some men are afraid to be vulnerable in a one to one relationship because if the relationship does not work out they will feel abandon so cheating gives them a way out if their relationship does not work out.
8) Love to discover
To some men they see cheat as a way of discovering more about women, learning how to use the right word to get her into a relationship is a challenge.
9) Enjoy taking risk
Some men enjoy taking the risk to meet women it gives them a sense of living, and the ability to get what they want when they set out to do so.
10) Want to feel desire by more than one person
Knowing that some woman loves him is not enough for some men they want more, knowing that many women is interesting in him makes him feel good enough.
Conclusion: Some men cheat because it is a way of not being vulnerable. It gives them a chance to have one foot in a relationship and one foot out.
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