How To Please A Woman Sexually

Today, the art of pleasuring has really changed from what it used to be. Many men actually prefer oral sex than sex itself! Yes, this is an actual fact and you can only wonder how good it feels if men are starting to choose a blow job for sex. A blowjob is one of the most fantasized sexual activities. I can guarantee you that your partner is thinking about your lips and mouth sucking on him until he blows his load. Keep in mind that many women may believe that all it takes is to put it in your mouth, but it isn't that easy. There is actually an art involved. You really have to take your time and learn what he likes and dislikes and once you become a pro, you will have your man looking for you in a different way. I'd like to stress out the fact that some men really prefer oral sex in comparison to vaginal sex or hand masturbation. By now, I'm sure I don't have to tell you how important it is for you to know how to give great head.

The following are several tips that will leave your man wanting more:

Relax and Enjoy it! - This is probably one of those overlooked tips, but keep in mind that most of the pleasure of sexual activity comes from the mind. Therefore, if you relax and enjoy the process, your man will see that and I bet you he'll enjoy it much more. If your man feels that you are very tense and are in a position that you don't want to be, it can be quite a turn off for any man. If you change your mindset and think of this process as an love act or a gift to him for giving great sexual pleasure. But, this should be pretty easy if you really truly love him and want him to experience such an amazing sexual pleasure, then it should come pretty easy.

Don't be Afraid - Ask? - You're not going to be a pro overnight that's for sure and every man can be different, so you'll always have to tweak your "skills" or "technique" to match what he likes or what makes him most satisfied. You can learn all the basic techniques you want, but in the end you'll have to do some things more than others because he enjoys it more. I know you want to make him coming back for more, so why not make it the best experience ever? There is definitely no harm done in actually asking your man what he wants or prefers - ask him what feels best. For example, he may ask you to use a combo of your mouth, lips, hands, etc. Beginning the process by teasing him and using your hands is sometimes preferred by many men until he is almost fully "there" and then that is when you jump in and finish him off with your lips and mouth. You'll be amazed with his reaction. Another thing that you can try is to alternate between these using your mouth or hands or even try it at the same time. Another example you can try is to use your hands and lips together with the hands at the bottom of his shaft and your lips at the tip or the head, as some people call it, providing plenty of saliva for lubrication.

Wetness is always a good thing - Wetness is important for two reasons. You want to make sure that the area is very wet so that you can easily go in and out with your mouth. The other reason is that it makes the sensation 10 times better. Making sure that you keep your mouth very wet when giving a blow job or oral sex is definitely a must. It's not only about keeping your mouth very wet, but to make sure that his entire shaft is wet from the head of the penis to the base. To be honest, the sloppier you are, the better it will be for him. There is no need to be "neat" here. This next tip may sound awkward at first, but you won't believe how effective it is. If you keep a glass of water or any liquids by you before you actually give him a blow job will give him this amazing feeling. It may sound silly at first, but its like giving your mouth a head start and it will definitely surprise your man.

The use of teeth is definitely a NO NO - You can make something so good turn so bad in just seconds. You are in an area that is very sensitive and is one of the largest complaints; men have about receiving a blow job. You don't want your teeth scraping against his shaft - just as a rule of thumb, the fewer teeth you have involved, the better it'll feel. You might be surprised that this is a very common mistake that women make when giving oral sex. As mentioned before, your man's area is a very extremely sensitive part of his body and teeth scraping away are not the best feeling anyone would ever want to go through.

Another useful tip is to make sure you watch how much pressure you apply as well ast he speed with which you suck or rub the penis. This is very dependent on yoru partner though as this is more a preference. Keep in mind, it doesn't hurt to ask! A little teasing has never hurt anyone and if you make him last a little bit longer, he'll appreciate you much more. Teasing cause also really increase his pleasure as he is about to climax. Try to aim for anything between 5 to 20 minutes.

Keep these tips in mind and remember to relax and enjoy it!

By: Adam Rauch

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I can't stress enough that learning how to give oral sex is something every woman should know. Men simply love receiving blow jobs and when you know how to do it right, he'll return the favor. If you really enjoyed these tips, I want to recommend you to check out this guide on How To Give Blow Job To A Guy