How To Save Your Marriage - The Golden Rule

If you are sincerely interested in saving your marriage then there are some steps which you can begin to take right now. The ideas I am going to share with you are not complicated and anyone can do these things.

I think if you apply the golden rule to your marriage (do unto your spouse as you would have them do unto you), that can solve a lot of problems. The ideas I am sharing with you are built on that concept.

One of the most powerful things you can do to save your marriage is to make your spouse feel good about themselves. Think about it. Who do you enjoy spending time with and why do you enjoy their company? If you really think about this I believe you will find that you most like to spend time with people who make you feel good about yourself. It is true that we like or dislike people because of the way they make us feel when we are around them.

Often people caught in affairs say that the reason they were with the other person is because of the way that person made them feel. It would be wise to be the one who makes your spouse feel good about themselves. And, when you make them feel good, they are happier, which in turn makes your relationship happier.

One way to make your spouse feel good about themselves is to use sincere compliments. Spend some time thinking about compliments you could share with your spouse. Write them down so you don’t forget and then make a point of sharing these. If you could share these compliments in public then that is even more powerful. You could also share with them some of the unique qualities they have which you really appreciate, what makes them special to you. Let them know that there is a reason you have chosen to be with them. Everyone likes to be chosen.

Remember to show your love to your spouse in a way that is significant to them. It may not be the same way that you would choose to have love shown. For example, some women don’t want to be given a bouquet of flowers, maybe they would prefer a foot massage. Some people like to know that time is being lavished on them (maybe their partner takes the time to make a special dinner). While others feel spoiled when their partner has chosen to spend money to buy them a special treasure. Some people need physical contact from their spouse in order to feel loved. This doesn’t only refer to sexual contact. Your spouse may appreciate a hug or even just experiencing close proximity with you.

I hope that these ideas have got you thinking about how it is possible to save your marriage. There is hope if you are willing to try and I applaud you for making the effort.

By: Jasmine Kelly

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As a teacher and a wife of 23 years, Jasmine Kelly loves sharing tips which have helped her and hopefully will help others. She has a strong desire to see people in happy fulfilling relationships. If you have found this article helpful or if you would like to find some resources which can help you on your journey of marriage rescue then please visit Marriage Rescue.