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How’s Your Blame Game Going?
Well, it sure doesn’t sound nice having some one accused you of having any sorts of disorder; however blame disorder is probably what most of us are suffering from. You don’t need to take my words for it. Just look into your life and you’ll see what I mean by that. How often do you play the blame game? How long have you been playing the useless, yet addictive game? Does the below statements sound familiar? 1. It’s all their fault. 2. If it has not been for them, this thing won’t happen. 3. Why must this thing happen to me now? 4. Why can’t she be more understanding? 4. He doesn’t care about me at all. He doesn’t love me anymore. 5. As a friend how can he do that to me? 6. Why must the traffic jam happen now? Feeling guilty of playing the blame game? Don’t worry for you’re not alone. Everyone plays the blame game and suffers from the blame disorder. It’s just that a matter of how frequent and how long is the disorder going to bother you. I know almost every personal development guru out that suggest you to be 100% responsible for your own actions, the people around and the circumstances. Well, you may say easier said then done. For that, I agree with you. In fact, till now, I still catch myself playing the blame game. To what I know, being fully responsible for one’s life is not something you can master in matter of days or weeks. Whenever you start the blame game, you’re relinquishing some of the control you’ve in your life to the other person or circumstances that “cause” you to become what you’re now. Hence, stop giving others the control over you. Take back your control of your life. Start making conscious effort to cure yourself of your blames disorder. You have to learn how to go beyond blame to attaining 100% responsbility of your life. Article Directory: http://www.articledashboard.com Zach Kong is web entrepreneur, a self mastery trainer and advisor. He has written several articles on self improvement and tips on how to make better choices. His websites help numerous people in attaining their successes in life by providing them with valuable advice, free tools and resources.
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