Finding your perfect date can be complicated if you don't understand what makes people tick. We are all different and sometimes this is what attracts us to another person. But often, these very differences in our personalities and attitudes to life can stand in our way of being happy together.
When you are seeking your perfect date it's important to look at the really fundamental things you have in common. Whilst it's true 'opposites attract' in many cases what draws you to a person at the very beginning of a relationship can drive you apart after the passing of time.
Just simple things like choosing where to go for a meal, planning a weekend vacation, or putting together a do-it-yourself wardrobe can all give you pointers to how much you have in common. For example, if you both like going to trendy, upbeat places with lots of people for a meal, this is an indicator you both enjoy high energy. However, if one of you constantly prefers quiet, intimate locations instead, then this could be an area for disagreement.
Planning your weekend trip can also help you understand your similarities or differences if you look carefully. Do you both like to make these plans well ahead of time, or does one of you prefer to be more spontaneous and 'go with the flow'? Or could it be both of you like a more laid back attitude to life in general?
Imagine buying a do-it-yourself self assembly wardrobe pack from the local hardware store. Will one of you prefer to read through all of the instructions BEFORE you even considering putting the pieces together? Or could it be one of you prefers to dive straight in, take action with only a quick glance at the written instructions... only to find they end up with pieces left over... so is then forced to GO BACK and read the instructions?
These are just three examples of how we prefer to be energized, take in information and live our life - but can you see how understanding more about what you have in common and how you differ BEFORE to get further down the line when you're dating can really improve your chances of finding your perfect date?
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