How To Help A Woman Feel More Comfortable With Her Body

Are you in a relationship with a woman who is not comfortable with her body and therefore is not comfortable with YOU around her body? Do any of the following sound familiar?

- She will only have sex with the lights off.
- She doesn’t want you to see her undress.
- Showering together is out of the question.
- She needs to do a full body makeover before you can get close!
- You can only have sex in certain positions!

There are many women who are uncomfortable with their bodies and will only let their man see and feel them in a certain light and in a certain position, and this hinders both of their pleasure on a level that she may not even be aware of.

Letting loose and being comfortable with your body is a freeing feeling for a woman. She can let go of all the pressure and stress about her body image and allow herself to relax enough to enjoy herself and possibly have an orgasm.

If your woman is not having orgasms and she is not comfortable with her body then this is probably why! A woman needs to fully relaxed and be in the moment in order to have an orgasm. She can’t be stressed out about her body.

So how can you help a woman feel more comfortable with her body and just enjoy sex?

Consistently Tell Her How Much You Like Her Body

You can’t just tell her once or twice and expect her to help her believe it. She needs to constantly hear how much you love her body until she fully believes it – and of course even after.

Even if she acts like she doesn't believe you keep going because she probably does. She's just trying to get you to confirm it over and over again.

If you stop confirming it at any point then she will take that as a sign that you were lying or over-exaggerating and you will make your woman feel as though the way she views herself is correct.

Be Specific About What You Like

Telling her that you love a body part is not enough to make a woman feel better about her body. If it was then most women would feel great with their bodies.

You have to tell her that you love the way her waist curves inward or the way her ass makes you want to grab it. Focus on specific things to really let her know that you are paying attention to her body and that you really enjoy it.

Believe me when I tell you that she will go to the mirror and check out her waist after you tell her you love it, and eventually she will start to believe it to. I personally still remember things that men have said specifically about my body and it is still a positive part of my body image.

Make a Big Deal About her Body Outside of The Bedroom

If you talk about her body when you are not both naked then that will show that you are really sincere about the way you feel about her body and she will take your words even more to heart.

Compliment her while she walking up the stairs and you are behind her. Compliment the way her she looks when wears a new outfit. Tell her how sexy she is at random moments. All of these things will have a huge impact on her body image.

Touch Her Lots

If you like her body then you will want to touch it – at least that’s what she thinks, so touch her and let her know that you crave her body just the way it is.

The added bonus of doing this outside of the bedroom is that it will make your woman feel as though you really do like her body morning, noon, and night - and not just during sex.

Never Tell Her She's Crazy

You may want to tell her that she has lost her mind if she doesn't think that she is sexy but this is not going to help you make your woman feel better. It will probably just make her feel like you don't think she's a rational person and it will make her struggle with a whole new issue altogether.

You should however always follow her negative comments about herself with a positive comment from you. If she says that her ass his huge then tell her that you love her ass and then spank it. If she says that her hips are too wide tell her that you love the way her hips look and that you would love to be touching her hips right now. Always follow with a positive comment to leave her knowing that your image of her body is a positive one.

By: Bellaisa Filippis

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Using these tips can have two effects. They will make a woman feel better about her body image and help you get a girl in the mood as well. So use them wisely! Bellaisa is the owner of pleasure her tonight a website with relationship advice for men on dating, sex, and relationship issues.