Is your man the strong, silent type? You know the kind - he doesn't say much, but when you are in bed together, he says even less. Heavy breathing and the occasional sigh are the closest he comes to dirty talk while you're making love. How do you pull a man like that out of his shell and get him into talking dirty to you?
It's time to learn how to talk dirty to inspire him! If you are excited about your naughty thoughts and enthusiastic about sharing them with him, you just might be able to get him excited about it, too.
Approach dirty talk with a playful air. Start long before you get to the bedroom. Tease him during the day with comments about how "sexy" he is or how "naughty" he can get when you're alone. Tell him how much you love to touch him, and how much you love it when he does that little thing he does - whatever it is, describe it in detail!
Ask him direct questions that demand an answer. "Do you like it when I kiss your neck?" is a good example of a simple, easy question that isn't too threatening. At this point, even a simple "yes" or "no" will do. The point is to get him used to the idea of talking about your sex life and the things he likes.
Prompt him with questions that get increasingly intimate. When he starts blushing and floundering for a simple one-word answer, you know he's hot and bothered! Now you can take the action to the bedroom and work on his dirty talk while you're between the sheets.
Making a game of dirty talk is a good way to encourage your silent man to become more vocal. Ask him those direct questions again, but this time, hold back some sort of pleasure until he answers you. Hover over him, ready to perform some sort of sexual act he really likes, but don't let him have it until he describes exactly what he wants. Be patient - it may take some time for him to utter the words, and you might have to prompt him.
But when he does say it, make it clear how much you love what he's said. Tell him not only with words, but with your body as well. Reward him for talking dirty! The next time you're in bed together, you can remind him of how much you liked it, and ask him to tell you what he wants. It will take a few tries, but once he understands how much you like talking dirty, he will certainly aim to please!
