Online the psychology is very much the same as only the form of communication is new and unique to many. We are all very much the same, online or in real life. Opening up who you are and relating is critical to your success.
You know, it is not easy for me to disclose myself this way. We are alike, you and I, in that respect. We hide our selves from the world. We keep our insecurities, doubts, weaknesses, and needs under cover. Maybe we are just saying, I do not want you to give me the things I need because I have asked for them. I don't want your pity and charity. I just want your love and your respect."
And so we conceal our deepest longings. Like a ghost in our closet, making sure we earn that which we hope and need from others. And maybe that is ok. At any ratet that is the way it seems to be.
So, why do I bother going throught such an unnatural process?
Because I do not believe there is much difference between us. We have traveled separate paths to get this way or perhaps different roads to end up in the same place. Our emotional temperatures may vary. But if you look beneath the surface we are really quite alike.
We all yearn to be needed, wanted and truly loved. We want to be important to someone. We need satisfaction, appreciation, acceptance, recognition, fulfillment, and a whole lot of other things that we reach out for from within.
Most of us are much alike. So remember, to the degree you give others what they need. They will in turn give you what you need.
What do others need? All we really need to do is look well within ourselves, and you will find that which exists in others. What you need, they need. What is closest to your heart emotionally is also closest to theirs. You are your own measuring device, your own barometer, of what you are in need to give in order to get what you need from life. These things we know inside but somehow never seem to realize. Can you relate?
Strategies That Work In Every Situation. Rick Shoop with It’s a Digital Future why not utilize it? Basic Training in relationships for the real world applies to the internet as well.
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