If you’ve ever been wondering what you can do to help a man commit to you, you’ve come to the right place. Right now you’re going to learn what you can do to help him commit and stay with you.
The secret that many women refuse to comprehend is that when they spend time obsessing over men, it actually causes them to lose their power. Many women end up here and spend countless hours patrolling their relationship. They consistently “try” to decode a man’s behavior to know if he’s interested or going to commit.
The person who is indifferent is the boss. Whoever has a lower interest level is in charge of the relationship.
You don’t want a man’s interest to be lower than yours. This is the killer of attraction and any commitment potential.
You want his interest to be shooting through the roof and it starts by dropping in the lower interest category if you really want to snag that guy.
Most women fear that if they don’t show as much interest, the man will leave or become interested elsewhere but this is because they believe lies about men and commitment.
Men want what they cannot have. Whenever your interest is higher than his, he’ll want you LESS. When your interest is lower than his, he’ll want you MORE.
So the best approach is to develop the skills that will create the right experiences where you are responsive BUT have a lower interest level.
It is all wrapped up in male hardwiring. They’ll go after women who blow them off more in an effort to prove they can be a hero.
Think about this as developing the characteristics that increases attraction and the level of connection where it is mutually beneficial for you.
Nicole Gayle is the author of the ebook that shows women how to get men to commit and propose with secrets about men that 95% of women don't know. Get the free report now at: www.howtogofromgirlfriendtowife.com
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