Keys To Avoid Failure And Attract Success In A Home Based Business In Mlm.
Everything in our life, spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, home and job, we have attracted it. There is no in-between, no neutral state, all of our habits and actions either attract people or just the opposite. The sad part is we usually don't have control of our actions.
Want to alienate someone, try not bathing or brushing your teeth for a month or two. You'll be as popular as a fox in a hen house.
What one thing could you do to attract that special person or desire into your life?
Everything we do, all the habits we have either attract or repulse people.
Success in network marketing or a home business, our habits attract it or we inadvertently push it out of our reach. Most people push success away and attract problems and never have a clue why.
Here's what you want to avoid in order to maximize work from home business success and also in this article we reveal how to condition your mind and habits to attract success.
First we must realize that our subconscious mind is like a dumb computer. It doesn't know reality, like a computer it gives us what we program it to do.
When our thoughts and overall attention is focused on negative things like, why can't I lose weight, or earn more money we are programming it just like a computer. Our subconscious mind is quite the ignorant fellow, when we sarcastically say I could sure use a hole in my head it's the fellow that in all seriousness responds back, "how big a hole would you like?"�
Okay so now you're probably asking, I get it, but how can I train my mind to attract success and the things I desire?
First we must understand energy, the world consists of energy, all of our thoughts are comprised of pure energy, in fact the creation of the entire universe started with a thought.
We have the power to control our destiny and success by learning to control the energy of how we focus our thoughts.
Start out each day by looking for reasons to feel grateful for everything we have and speak them out loud. Being grateful or thankful is like a conditioning exercise. It prepares our mind and creates positive energies for a productive and successful day. To assure you remain in a positive state during the day carry some object on your person that carries a reminder to feel thankful for all you have.
Your next step is to define precisely what you want prior to asking. It is written in the Bible, ask and you shall receive.
Now let me say this about asking and most people really misunderstand this.
Due to people's misconception about asking, I believe it is extremely important that you understand how wealth creation helps others or you're liable to be unsuccessful.
Most people think the world is like a finite pie, if they get more, everyone else gets less so they think I don't want to be selfish, they couldn't be more wrong.
What the World considers unselfish behavior is actually selfish and here's why. Before we ask for something we are either selfish or unselfish in our heart. Actually we can never only create wealth and riches for only ourselves. This process also creates more wealth for many others.
If we're unselfish we help the poor more by having than by not. We can't give what we don't have.
Many people and leaders in the world would like you to think they are being noble and unselfish. They'll make statements like the rich should pay more in taxes to provide more benefits for poor people. Although they never propose actually taxing wealth, but an increase in income taxes on the rich. Because income is actually a measure of production, what they are really proposing is this. If you produce a lot and thus help many others you will have to pay more, this discourages productivity. On the other hand someone who produces little is taxed less, for all intents and purposes those who espouse this philosophy are encouraging laziness. I'm not proposing it but it actually makes more sense to tax accumulated wealth than a tax on the production of wealth (income tax). However, don't look for an accumulated wealth tax anytime soon, as many of the people running things are already wealthy.
There have always been those who want to control others, give their definition of selfishness. This can become a problem when these people get in power and have control of others lives.
I'm sure you are aware that government gets its money to run things through taxes. Pretty much a no-brainer here. But let's take this a step further. Most people in government have never had their own business to generate wealth. Until you've created wealth in a business it's hard to understand how it's done so it's easy for them to believe wrong principals like in order for someone to become richer someone else had to become poorer. Actually that's the only way government has to make someone wealthier by taking from someone and giving it to someone else, as government produces nothing on its own. Actually this would make society as a whole poorer. When an individual through business becomes richer other people and society also become richer as a by-product. This is because they produce something for this wealth, while government does not.
We're back on track now after our needed explanation. So how does asking work toward creating success?
What is asking? It is more than simply desiring or dreaming about something. It's a definite process. It starts with detailing exactly what you want. This could consist of a new car, a second income, a new home, or more time to spend with loved ones. However, the key is to be very precise, I would suggest you even go on the internet and find pictures and details (if possible) about what you desire and print them out. Generalities like a lot of money or a new home or a new car simply don't send strong enough of a picture to our subconscious mind in order for it to help us obtain it. Our subconscious mind will however, respond to precise descriptions like we can put on paper or on a picture.
Okay so we've established that the proper method to go about asking for what we desire is to be very definitive. In fact if I were to coach you I would have you practicing visualizing exactly what you desire down to the very last detail. If it's a new house, what's the color of brick, how many fireplaces, how many bathrooms, what's your dream kitchen, what does it look like? The more details you furnish the more likely you will get what you desire.
This is very important concept to understand about asking, the world always answers us back when we as ask. It may not be exactly what we're seeking but it's an answer none the less. If we want the answer we're looking for, it's important to spend time each day believing and practicing our mind imaging the precise goals we have identified.
When was the last time you received something that you didn't prepare for properly. What if you just climbed out of bed and without bathing or cleansing you showed up for a job interview in only your underwear? Would you get the job, most likely not. Even if it was something you wanted you wouldn't get it because you violated the law of being properly prepared. Just desiring something isn't enough. We must properly prepare to receive what we desire and ask for.
There are only a couple reasons why a person should not be at least fairly comfortable in a wealthy society. They lack understanding or in this case knowing the rules of the game. Or they are just lazy. This article is not to help the lazy, in most cases they won't read this article. No this article is intended to give people the understanding of the rules of the game. The law of success is a law. You must abide by the rules of this law to be successful.
Those of us who are fortunate enough to know the principals of success, are obligated to use our knowledge to accomplish much, for which, we will be greatly rewarded. Abraham Lincoln said, "A poor person never became richer because a rich person became poorer."� The Bible guides us to never forget the poor, however if we are poor ourselves how much can we help others when we're just trying to help ourselves. Unfortunately there's not much we can do for someone who would be lazy, but we can educate and bring knowledge to those who thirst to learn.
So in conclusion it's really pretty simple, how we think ultimately controls our destiny for success or failure and if we gravitate toward negative thoughts we're headed toward failure. We must be very careful how we phrase things in our mind. We must constantly be on guard as it's so easy to let negative thoughts and doubts creep in. Every negative phrase we use like "I can't afford that" should be replaced with something positive like I choose not to buy it now but I will have it later. Thoughts like this build confidence.
This is very important. Always avoid using words like need, or want, or needing, or wanting something. Doing so sends the wrong message to our subconscious mind. We need to learn to think in terms of when I get my new car it will be so cool, or when I have that new home I'm going to invite people over to a party.
When we have learned the principals of programming our thinking toward confidence and belief, we have learned how to attract successes. It is also important to have a foundation of wisdom and principals of caring for others, to guide us, like the Ten Commandments, a guiding light so to speak. Throughout history there have been too many evil men- who were dictators, who had only their own selfish interests and gains in mind, and although they were confident and obtained monetary success; because they had no caring or love for their fellow mankind, they brought much misery on people. (men such as Adolph Hitler, Mao Tse-Tung, Joseph Stalin and many more).
Thus I believe it is very important that what we do, we do with an attitude of love toward our fellow man.
Think for a moment of all of the totally confident people you have known. In all of their actions were any of them unsuccessful? I doubt it.
Remember, to attract success like it was metal filings and you were a magnet, practice the power of focusing your thoughts.
