Law Of Attraction - The Right Way

Have you ever set goals, visualized them and still failed to get results you were looking for? Many people have picked up a self-help book or video and set new intentions only to achieve lack-luster outcomes. This has happened in my life from time to time until I discovered a better way to use the Law of Attraction.

The law of attraction is very popular, movies like The Secret have portrayed it to be some magical genie that automatically fulfills your wishes. They send the message that if you think something, it will instantly come into being. People love to hear this and it sells books and DVDs. But it doesn’t work quite like that.

The concept that things are attracted to you by your thoughts is not accurate. Try going to a dark room and visualizing a new car being dropped into your driveway, is it there yet?
Things are, instead, attracted to you by the energy within. This energy is much more than just a thought, it’s your very being, the person that you are right now. If you try to pour water into oil, they won’t mix well because they’re not the same. If you are acting like oil and your goal is like water, it’s just not going to happen. The solution is to change who you are to match the oil and results will being to come quickly.

It works like this: whatever energy frequency you’re on, things on that frequency will be attracted back to you.

The frequency of who you are is like radio waves, in order to hear the music you want to listen to, you have to tune your dial to the right radio station. Changing your frequency is just like moving the dial. You may be on a very different station than the one of your goals, so you’re getting very different playback in your life.
Changing this dial in our lives involves changing who we are. It goes beyond just thinking about something. You have the results that you have in life because of the person that you are. Change who you are and your results will be different.

But how do you change who you are? You can’t pretend to do something or trick yourself into believing something that isn’t real. My problem with visualization is that when you intend something by visualizing, you’re drawing that visualization into your life, not the thing itself! For example, have you noticed that when you intend something you always see it around you? You may want a new car, so you start visualizing this car and it pops up all around your environment.

Some think this is great, as if it’s “working” but in reality it already has worked, you got what you were intending. This means that to attract something into your life you don’t need to see it – you need to BE it. Want a beautiful relationship? BE that relationship on every level of your being. Want a Mercedes? BE that Mercedes on every level of your being. Want to lose 25 pounds? BE that healthier person on every level of your being.
Step By Step

You may be wondering, “Okay, now how do I ‘become’ like a car?” The answer is that it’s about getting in touch with your future self that is aligned with this goal. Here’s a quick guide for doing this:

1. Physically experience whatever it is you want to intend, if even for a moment. Go to that new area, test drive the new car, wear the suit. The point is to get a strong, detailed feel for this goal. You can’t attract something if you don’t know what it is.
2. Sit quietly for a few minutes and just feel your breathing become relaxed. Block out other thoughts and vibrations. In essence, quiet down your current vibrational status.
3. Then, take the pieces of this goal (that you gathered in step 1) and begin to accept them as a reality in your life. Understand that those things are you and are part of you. Start to think and feel the thoughts and feelings of this goal. What will you be doing when it’s accomplished? What does it look like? What song will you be listening to? Be as specific as possible.
4. Do this for several minutes every day and you will begin to associate yourself with this goal.

Results will begin to show up quickly. There’s a good chance that if you’re able to accurately connect with these vibrations, it will begin to happen fairly quickly. You’ll start to see inexplicable things just fall into your world that completely match your vision.
This factor can be a valuable tool: if your desires aren’t coming in a reasonable period of time, you’re probably doing something wrong and it would be wise to take a look at how in tune you are with your goals.

When I started using this method, I noticed that results began coming much more quickly and accurately than the typical method of thinking about my goals over and over.

By: BlogAndrew

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