Marriage From People Of Different Race, Religion Or Blood Relatives

It is not also many people who introduce their lovers to the family early enough, so as to allow destructive or constructive comments from those who matters most.

And when they are finally engaged and planning the wedding dates, issues start arising from in laws from either sides or both.

Can these two lovebird’s love conquer all if the parents and relatives are against their happiness because they are from a different religion?

Time and time again couples have had to make very difficult decisions concerning disobeying the unwritten laws of society about marriage or marry the love of their lives.

Possibly parents who object such relationships from pushing through think highly of their daughters or sons because of the money they invested in their lives for years, but it is unfair.

Some religions like Muslims requires that one who marries or is married by their own children, be converted to their faith and serious couples would not find this a challenge as their parents would.

The dilemma many find themselves in is that of trying to evade offending either family or partner, while others choose to simply follow their hearts.

Marriage for people of different race has always been a big issue for those whose approaches to matters of love and relationships is either discriminative or outdated.

You and me know of very many couples that despite the resistance from family members, relatives and friends went ahead and got married and today they lead happy lives.

Everyday I wonder why humans discriminate each other on matters of race, nationality, financial status, disability and so on.

What has any of that got to do with two people falling in true love and desiring to share the rest of their lives?

I know there are fears that the gentleman or the lady might be of bad character but parents normally are not present when their children meet and decide to know each other better.

Color of the skin, for instance cannot be a formula for searching a person’s true love that can be anywhere around this big planet.

Marriage of close relatives are also common and very unacceptable in some parts like Africa, but it does happen.

This is probably the most difficult for parents to bless with all their hearts and I too do not know if it is right or wrong.

I have cousins who decided to live together as couples in spite of all efforts their parents put to separate them.

As fate would have it, their relationship was not meant to last for it was torn apart by the parents to the man as they kept mistreating the lady and the whole thing ended in hatred between the two families

Some couples are so torn that they go to an extent of avoiding each other or doing wrong things to instigate a breakup but they end up loving each other more.

For adult children, letting them be, after realizing that in a situation like this one, they would choose to do the right thing and follow their hearts is one option.

Similarly, they might choose to do the wrong thing and allow parents and relatives win, something that would deny them true joy forever.

The worst lovers could do is to sit back and accept the decision of everyone else even if it is clear that it is extremely unfair.

By: Esteri Maina

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