Is it not what everyone wants after breaking up with that perfect partner? Right now I do not want to know about your ex perfection I am just going to ask you why you want to get back with him/her.
There can be many reason why your want an ex back in your life, everyone's situation is different, you need to find the reason that most fits your case. Is it because:
1 - You love your ex more than anything else but you needed some time apart which turned into a breakup
2 - Your ex was taking really good care of you, that kind of care you may not get from anyone else?
3 - You were not sure if you really loved your ex but how that he/she is not around you realized it.
4 - You had a comfortable life with your partner and cherish what you both built up together.
5 - You liked to show them off to your friends like a gold medal that you won
By now you must already know the exact reason why you want your ex back, so you can start working on a good strategy to win your ex's heart back. Often in a situation like this when you will ask your friends or family for advice they will end up saying you want to get back with your ex because you love them. Sure that is the number one reason, but it is too vague to just depend on this reason to find a solution. You will need to find an answer to why you want them back, and make sure you find the most honest reason possible.
Of course, it is not an easy task when you know that you have done something wrong. But if you really want your ex back and you love him/her you surely want to try the best you can. What I want to make clear here is that you need to be honest with yourself and at the same time respect your ex's decision. If you want your ex for the wrong reasons, you will definitely find yourself in this type of situation throughout your life.
If you were with your partner for the wrong reasons to begin with, this might be the number one reason why they broke up with you. Take reason number 5 above, this is the worse thing you can do to your partner even if you thought you were not doing anything wrong. After you have realized what your mistake is, work over changing your mindset.
All this will require some time but you will be prepared to face your ex to work on getting back together. You need to find a genuine reason for your ex to want you back I their life.
Ruby Mora has been as a relationship adviser to her friends for a long time. Mostly dealing with delicate situations like a break ups where the partners wanted to get their ex back. She recommends reading The Magic Of Making Up, an e-book that has already helped thousands of couples to get back together.
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