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One Reason He Did Not Call You After Your Date
Sometimes the answer is that you did nothing wrong and he just caught up in his own life with work, problems, or even an ex. In that case it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with him. But sometimes, as hard as it is to admit, it WAS you that caused him not to call you. One big reason for this is being too demanding or domineering during the date. Many women feel like they have to portray a strong and independent woman during a date, and there's nothing wrong with that. But when you go overboard and begin to treat you date like an employer then you have crossed the line into a territory that most men will find unappealing. Are you guilty of being to domineering on a date? To be honest you may not even realize you are offending him in any way with your behavior, and instead view yourself as being someone he admires for your independent ways. But there really is a fine line between being independent and too opinionated. Here are a 3 signs that this may be you: 1. You Like To Argue. You think that stating your point of view and making him see your point on everything from the healthiest food to the deepest ocean will show him how smart and educated you are, but it may just be turning him off. If he is constantly being corrected by you, or having to debate his point of view on things, then you may lose his interest quickly as no one wants to be challenged all the time. It can become quite exhausting and annoying to have to argue every statement or belief you verbalize. If this describes you then try to see things from his point of view on your date and lay off the debating every point or issue. Not only will you avoid scaring him away with your arguing ways, but you will also learn a lot more about him if you allow him to share his point of view and knowledge with you. 2. You Have To Be Right. Maybe you don't correct him or give your point of view for the sake of debating, maybe it's because you have to be right and have to win the argument at all costs. Many women will keep arguing long after they realize that they are wrong just to avoid being the loser. But in the end you WILL be the loser because he will lose your number. When you compete with men at everything you do he does not become impressed with your talent to win and feel closer to you then ever before. In fact it's the opposite. Your produce feelings of competitiveness within him instead of romance and he views you as someone he has to beat instead of someone he wants to win the affection of. So avoid having to win in everything you do and just enjoy the date. 3. You Have to Be in Control of The Date. If you ever watch the millionaire matchmaker on TV you will notice that the matchmaker always makes the man plan the date. There is a good reason for this! Men don't like a controlling woman. They don't want to date their mother! If you are correcting the way he walks, talks, acts, or anything else that he does then you need to start correcting yourself. You may find that you like to control your atmosphere and way of living, but you don't want to control your man in the relationship. Being in control is not healthy for either of you, and if you show him that you are controlling by correcting him or planning every detail of the first few dates then you will give him a glimpse into what the future with you will be. All he will hear is "Yes dear" in his future and he will never look back once the date is over. So remember these 3 things on your next date. When you find yourself being to dominating or bossy then retreat and become a softer more open person. Your date will enjoy your company much more if you do this and will most likely want to see you again instead of being scared to see you again! Article Directory: http://www.articledashboard.com Bellaisa is the owner of the Relationship Circle, a website with relationship advice for men and women. |
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