Like you I was looking for proven methods to save my marriage from divorce, as my marriage was rapidly going down the pan. I needed to find a solution to a rather large problem and I needed to find it fast. Most people (me included), only try to find out about how to save their marriage when their relationship is in desperate trouble, and that is way too late! If you are anything like me, I felt a real urgent need to rectify the situation quickly before it escalated any further, and I was desperate to find answers. The problem was I was so desperate for a solution that I resorted to trying anything.
One of the things I resorted to was begging my partner to take me back, and even giving in to my partner's wishes and demands, even when I knew that these demands and wishes were not at all what I wanted. This only succeeded in driving my partner even further away from me. It wasn't until I realised that I was getting nowhere that I realised that I had to think "outside of the box" if I was going to fix my marriage.
A really solid piece of advice I was given, was to stop being angry and bitter and to stay calm. Every time I expressed a negative thought or carried out a negative action, it evoked a negative response from my partner. The only way to change this was to make sure my partner from now on saw me in a positive light! Then hopefully a positive reaction would ensue.
One of the best ways in which you can do this is by making yourself less accessible to your partner (In fact quite the opposite of begging for forgiveness) If you are interested in a hobby that you haven't taken up yet then do it! If you want to go out with some friends after work, or join a book club, or the local gym, then do it! This has a two fold action. Firstly it takes your mind of the problem and gives you space to think more clearly. Secondly, this will make your partner realize that you are not as reliant on them as they thought you were. This will make them re-evaluate their way of thinking, and this coupled with your new found positivity will start to steer your marriage in the right direction.
This method worked for me! However this is just the tip of the iceberg. Your marriage problems probably didn't happen over night, and they are not going to get fixed overnight. However there are things that you can do today, right now, to start turning your marriage around. So for more proven methods to save marriage from divorce then you need to visit www.marriagefixer.info
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