If you want an answer to the question, should I save my marriage, you are going to have ask some questions of yourself and you will need to come up with your own answer. I can give you some guidelines of what to ask yourself, but you will have to do the answering of the questions.
You first need to spend time thinking about what are the problems in your marriage. Sometimes the problem is only a symptom of the real problem, so you have to take time with this.
Things to consider, have you been happy most of the time and is it only a couple of issues that are driving you apart. Have you actually tried to solve the problem or problems you are encountering in your marriage. It is possible these issues could be resolved by really talking about them together or getting counseling.
Is it possible to accept some of the problems in the marriage? None of us are perfect, just make sure you are not expecting perfection from each other.
If you are happy together it might be worth trying to repair the damage to your marriage. Also consider that change can happen, but it might take time to occur. You can't expect you or your spouse to become a changed person overnight.
When evaluating whether you should save your marriage you need to also decide if your spouse is the person of your dreams or if you just want to stay together because being married would be at least better than the unknown that awaits you if you separate and divorce.
