Strip Clubs - Is Getting A Lap Dance Cheating?

Going to strip clubs is one thing, but many people feel that getting a lap dance is something else entirely. This is where lots of women draw the line. They say that lap dances are cheating and when they find out that their husband or boyfriend has been getting them, things can get ugly.

What's A Lap Dance?

In case you've never visited strip clubs before, a lap dance is a special private dance. You sit in a chair while a naked (or semi-nude, depending on the club) dancer gyrates above you. She spends most of the time on your lap, and hence the name. In most places, you're not allowed to touch; she can touch you but you've got to sit on your hands. However, in some places, you're allowed to touch the girl. You can probably imagine how this would not look too good for your wife or significant other!

The Start Of Something Bad

While you're not carrying on an intimate relationship (not for longer than a song, anyway), many people feel that it's cheating anyway. They say that no man who's in a healthy relationship and satisfied with it would pay a random woman to get that close to him.

Others say that while it's not cheating, it's an indication that he wants to or is willing to cheat. In other words, he's looking for something that he's not getting at home. The lap dance itself may just be a type of entertainment that you get at strip clubs, but what's he going to do next?

They also might point out that, especially in private rooms, touching is okay. This touching could include licking and fondling. Now, it would be extremely inappropriate to do this kind of thing with a woman at a bar! Why is it okay if it's a gentleman's club and the woman is a dancer? Most women would definitely consider this cheating.

You Don't Know Her

The argument against the lap dance as cheating says that this is just a dancer. She's not someone you know and she's just doing her job. It's not like you're getting her phone number or asking her out on a date. When a lap dance is over, you tip the dancer and she goes on to something else. It's not a relationship of any kind.

Innocent Entertainment

The lap dance is a huge part of any night out to strip clubs. People who think it's cheating are usually the same ones who think that only messed-up guys visit the gentleman's club. This couldn't be any further from the truth. Lots of guys like to visit these places in order to relax, blow off steam and just be guys. The lap dance is just part of that.

Lots of guys would counter that it's just a simple matter of jealousy. Going to strip clubs is innocent fun, especially for birthdays, bachelor parties and other special occasions. Guys who are completely in love with their wives and girlfriends occasionally visit them just to have a good time and for them, lap dances are just good fun!

By: aaucoin

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