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Success Defines Us

If you were to ask everyone you've met for their definition of success, no 2 answers would be exactly alike - nor should they be. My personal definition is: Success is the daily realization of predetermined worthwhile goals, worthwhile both to me and to others.

Socrates was convinced that we give the best attention towards the least important things and the least attention towards the most important things. He believed that “wealth doesn’t cause excellence, but excellence brings about wealth and all public and private blessings for men.” It was the state of the soul which was of the highest importance to Socrates: the inner life of each person, greatness of spirit, wisdom, inner excellence.

When we give precedence to inner, both inner and outer fall into place. Once we follow the opposite course, emptiness will result. Success as I define it begins with something inside the inner existence of thought, feeling, imagination, and judgment. Success as I define it resonates deeply with our innermost needs and values, which then naturally manifests in the outer world. Only then can we attain the harmony and balance necessary for true happiness and true success.

The search for success should be an exciting and fulfilling adventure, where the joy is in the journey. I’ve said it before: one should not approach the road to success as one we travel today to achieve success tomorrow. Aspirations to succeed and excel ought to drive us every day. Or, most days, anyway!

What do you want?
We need a focused conception of what we desire, a vivid vision, a goal or set of goals powerfully imagined. What do you desire to be? What do you want to do? Do you think you're becoming it now? Do you think you're beginning to do it already, if only in a small way? If not, why not? What are you watching for? If you’re moving towards a general direction you feel good about, do you think you're making the sort of progress you think is acceptable?

You can do it!
We must have confidence that we are able to attain our goals. When we set ourselves high goals, we always face a challenge. The great Harvard psychologist and philosopher William James said that we need to learn to banish unhelpful doubts and cultivate beneficial self-confidence. Whenever we set new goals we believe in, higher goals we aspire to, and whenever we face new opportunities for growth and development, it’s easy for doubt to rush in and catch us.

Focus!
Dreamers can live within the confines of condition and often are unable to accomplish anything in the real world. Their imaginations are in gear, their visions are vivid, but they are unable to make the leap from their dreams toward their goals. We have to concentration on making things happen; what it requires to get from A to Z, if you will.

Commit!
We want an emotional commitment to the importance of what we’re doing, and to the people with whom we're doing it. This is a commitment expressed not in an individual action, nor even in a number of actions over a period of time but in an entire way of life. It means committing one’s self to becoming a “successful” person. In the immortal words of Vince Lombardi, “The quality of a person’s life is in direct proportion to their commitment to excellence, regardless of their chosen field of endeavor.”

Finally, remember that how we define success defines us. Just how do you define success? How does society define you?

By: Mark Ting

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