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The Cycle Of Action And Why Ex’s Do Not Leave
It does not matter if you are an ex-wife, an apostate, or some other kind of ex. All people go through this cycle. Some people say it is just hard to let go, but there is more. Let us look at the components of the cycle of action to see what is really happening. For ex members of religion it is just as applicable. First a person finds a relationship, a partner, some group he wants to belong to. We call this the CREATE stage. The person finds a position and creates it and creates himself in the group or relationship. The next phase is CREATE CREATE CREATE. This is where a person creates his space and creates the relationship over and over. For a married couple it is important that they continue creating. The same applies to someone in a religious, work, or other group. Because if you do not continue to create and create more, you will inevitably enter the next part of the cycle of action. Next is NO CREATION. Here the person simply does not do his job. He loafs, comes in late, and does nothing to create with his group. If it is a marriage there are no more picnics, no more restaurant dinners or flowers. The creation has gone. For some this is where they will walk out of the relationship, or the organization they were formerly with. For many, though they walk out, it is not the total end of the relationship. There is the next phase. Next is the natural compulsion to COUNTER CREATE against the organization, or the marriage and so on. Here you will find an ex-partner, ex-employee, ex-member if a religion, actively campaigning against the prior group that they once belonged. Counter create could be simply sniping comments at the former marriage, work place, or group. For some this stage of the cycle may be fast and for others it might drag on. The last stage of the cycle is simply NOTHINGNESS. Here the person who was counter creating finally gives up and drops it. Here is where the ex-husband just gives up on the former wife and gets on living again instead of making the ex-wife responsible for all the bad things that happened to him. Or for the ex-members of a religion (it would not matter which), they would stop any anti religious campaign they may have going. You will find yourself somewhere on this cycle in every activity you do. If you spot yourself in the no—creation stage but do not want to go all the way to the end, the solution is simple, start creating again. This works for anyone in any organization. For a marriage it means get back and start to CREAT CREATE and CREATE again, picnics, restaurants and flowers. It will breath vigour back into that marriage as though you doused it with magic. Article Directory: http://www.articledashboard.com Nick Broadhurst is the Executive Director of the Church of Scientology of Canberra. He has been in Scientology for 20 years. He worked in Japan for many years and was Chairman of the World Council For Religious Freedom - WCRF. Cycle of Action in detail , Church of Scientology on Apostates Leaving |
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