Your woman dumped you. You think you know why and you have made a list of all of the possible reasons why. The list seems to go on and on. Most of the reasons are small, trivial things that you could have easily corrected. You were likely aware of them but just didn't do anything about them. Maybe you corrected these flaws for a short time but you eventually resumed your regular level of activity. Were these the true reasons that your woman dumped you?
Many of the things you are reviewing in your head were likely contibuting factors and she may have rattled off several of those things as she was breaking the relationship off. But the number one reason why women dump men is that they feel underappreciated. More than anything a woman wants to feel appreciated by the man she is in love with.
How many times have you heard "you don't pay enough attention to me?" This attention doesn't equal gifts, money, fancy dinners, nice clothes...it means paying attention to the little things that she does for you. It means complementing her when there is no reason to complement her. Show your appreciation that she is in your life and you are grateful for that.
Most of us will begin to take each other for granted as time goes on. This is a costly mistake and can make our partners feel unappreciated to the point where they may begin to look elsewhere for attention. When was the last time you sat next to your woman on the couch and offered to hold her or rub her shoulders or feet while watching TV? Try opening the car door for her. Small task but it speaks volumes.
Could you repeat back to your woman what she spoke to you about a day to two ago? Make it a point to pay special attention when she is talking to you. Revisit the conversation without prompting at a later time. That way she will know you care and took the time to really pay attention to her. This action will make her feel more appreciated than any tangible or monetary gift you can think of.
Don't make the mistake of thinking everything is fine just because she hasn't told you anything differently. Show her your appreciation for her everyday. Paying special attention to the small things will guarantee her happiness in a long and lasting relationship.
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