The Prom Choice: Popular Guy Or Not As Cool Guy?

For some ladies, too many requests to take you to prom might be a problem. What would you do if your good friend invited you to go to prom and then another guy, a cool guy, did so, too? When you have to make a decision like this, there are many things to take into consideration. You should not just make a decision in a rash second. Before you say yes to either, and before you turn down the right guy, there are several things to think about.

One thing to remember about prom is that it is supposed to be a very enjoyable day for you. Therefore, when you are considering these two possible dates, one thing you want to consider carefully is which one you will likely have more fun with. You know how much fun your friend is. You also know how an evening out with them will likely be like. Do you know this about the popular guy, too? If you have not gotten to know them yet, do so first. Hang out with them a few times. Is this someone that you will be able to enjoy your prom with?

Next, consider your friend a bit closer. By asking you to prom, did your friend want to believe that your friendship could be more than that? Prom is often an evening for a bit of romance, on the clean side of course. If you do not think you will have a romantic evening out with your friend, then this may not be the right date for you. On the other hand, you may be hoping for a more fun and happy prom, rather than romance. Ask yourself which guy can make that happen.

For many ladies, having two guys ask them to prom is a real problem. Whose feelings will be hurt? Who will you let down? Will this ruin your friendship? Keep in mind the importance of prom to yourself, too. You have to make the decision based on who you want to go to prom with, not just on what other people will think or feel. In other words, you need to create an evening that is one you will be happy with.

There are many circumstances to take into consideration here. The important thing to remember, though, is that you should give the other guy, the guy you decide not to go to the prom with, an explanation of why not. Be sure to tell them what you have decided honestly and maybe help them to find a new date.

By: RobbyTsin

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