To Perk Up Her Libido, Give Your Woman High Self Esteem
Your wife's sex drive is directly connected to her self esteem.You can help her sex drive by helping her with her self esteem. You can make your wife feel special in so many different ways. Getting to know her as though you just met can play a major roll. Think of when you had your first date. It is very likely you left no stone unturned to impress her. You both were probably steeped in deep passion. Her libido was probably at an all time high. Your marriage may have slowed down and you aren't feeling that special spark anymore, which is the reason you are reading this. Perhaps the connection between you has become stagnant. Your marriage is experiencing a slump. Which is why her sex drive has been so low.
Your acceptance of her directly affects her self esteem Accept your wife 100% for who she is and she will blossom. Focus on what you can do for her. This is the key - she will have the right space and the right environment to grow in. As she grows and feels more loved, so will her libido.
It's time to wake up, roll and get those ideas flowing to impress and elate your wife. It all starts with small romantic ideas.
1. Tell her, "I love you," but back up the words with loving actions: gaze into her eyes, hug her tightly, and just snuggle for a while.
2. Leave her a message on a sticky note which simply reads "I love you" in a place you are sure she will discover it.
3. When you see her, take note of how beautiful she is, and remind her of it.
4. Although it sounds awkward, she'll enjoy you brushing her hair with her favorite brush. She will indicate whether you can make the motion harder or softer.
Note: Don't expect anything from her - do it just for her.
5. Be astute, watch how she prepares her coffee in the morning / breakfast / juice and prepare it for her the next morning and every morning from there on. With only 5 minutes a day you will see big results in the future. (If you are informed that your product is either too much or too little, thank her for the information and revise your formula - see hints to build trust)
6. Taking kids for an outing is a great way to impress on her your intention to give her a break. She will be so excited.. If she is comfortable planning it for another day, let her know that you are flexible and to just let you know when it works best for her.
7. Set a romantic mood, run a bath, make a nice glow with candles, prepare a relaxing drink. Let her relax, making sure she is not interrupted for any reason. Don't make her guess about your motives. Let her know that this is for her and that she can depend on you for help at any time, for any need. Hold on until she contacts you or is finished. Once again, keep in mind that you should not have expectations for yourself - this is for HER, after all.
8. Compile a CD containing a playlist of her favorite songs.
9. * Send her a "I'm thinking of you" card with a handwritten note that says: "I just wanted you to know that you are always on my mind, my precious Love.If there is anything else you want to say to make her feel special, say it.
These are only a few of all the things that can be done. There is the possibility that curiosity will strike and she will inquire as to why you are doing this. Inform her you are attempting to make a change in yourself and you want to pay more attention to her - because she deserves it and you are gifted to have her as part of your life.
Do these things to make her feel unique and loved, to make her feel number one. The most important person in your life and who will continue to be eternally is your wife; do special thing to make it known to her. This is pleasure and NOT work. Note that her happiness is the result of your actions and take pleasure from her smile, knowing that you are the cause. And her response will be more open, confident and passionate. Over time, her libido and the love will increase.
