Sex toys have always been a major subject of discussion with some people taking it as a taboo and the new generation demanding for more advanced pleasures. This article is a short version of an interview with a renowned sex expert to clear doubts of confused people.
1) What do you think about sex toys? Are you in favor or against?
Sex toys or sexual aids in many cases have brought a wind of freshness in relationships where with the routine and time span has eroded the bonds of communication and sexual expression. Often the choice becomes an erotic plaything for uniting couples since it is an inherently intimate act in which the rest of the family is not involved.
It is also a way to tell the other that you still want to be with your partner and enjoy every aspect of life. Toys bring other options, give the enjoyment a new way, and also relieve external pressures.
Erotic materials starting from videos, pictures, vibrators, dildos and other sexual aids can be used to stimulate each other. The erotic lingerie can also be a stimulant like classic books on the Internet or eroticism.
2) What are the risks (if any)?
When phalluses or objects used unexpectedly, violently and without lubricant can damage the vagina or anal mucosa, which is usually a risk factor. Another would be to accept something which is not in agreement and moreover sexual act is for the mutual pleasure so it’s not proper to go for any such thing. Also parasitic infections or when used with different people without hygiene or when performing an anal penetration and then vaginal, unless you use a condom in a new phallus or dildo after you've been in contact with the bacterial flora of the rectum.
3) Is there a growing demand for vibrators and dildos?
In fact, demand is growing and reflecting a different socio-cultural vision. There are certain values that are changing; People are abandoning the vision of the male sexual enjoyment, in which the subject was a man and woman an insatiable taxpayer who did not enjoy. But with the advancement, the trend is becoming more equitable, where the needs and desires of the female sex are accepted. At the same time, there is also a greater appreciation of the social welfare personnel, which includes the full enjoyment of sexual life.
The corollary of this is greater openness and freedom in the choice of toys, couples attending the premises together, making a decision as couple, women taking an active role and making further consultations on personal care, and often asking for guidance on courses techniques and also caring to follow them.
4) We always thought that the "console" is used only by women, but what about men?
Reality shows that many homosexual and heterosexual men also buy penetrating toys. This happens to those who ask their partners to use the "dildo" or an artificial phallus in plastic, silicone, rubber or leather, or harness, to be penetrated anally.
In other cases women buy vibrators for clitoral stimulation, with or without introduction in vaginal area. This is also not something new because since ancient times there has been a record of the use of phalluses for vaginal and anal penetration.
5) What can you suggest to future stakeholders to take into account before you go shopping?
I think, as with other products, it is always important to visit recognized places with local privilege, proper presentation of products and health care of its customers. Even consulting a sexologist, if necessary.
