What Arent They Saying - How To Read Your Dates Body Language

Sometimes you are on a date and its pretty obvious that things are going well just from what is being said. Often however things do not seem so cut and dried. No matter what you feel from the audible clues, how on earth can you be sure if your date is really attracted to you, and having a good time in your company. Sometimes people do not speak the whole truth. In this situation it's time to rely on the subtle visual clues our bodies give off, or our 'body language'. Our bodies can not lie as these clues are totally involuntary. I hope here to share a few pointers to help you to understand your dates body language.

Start with the eyes, is your date meeting your gaze, are they making eye contact, is this contact wide eyed and friendly or intense and creepy. The eyes cannot lie if they do not meet yours, or dart around the room, you can be assured your companion doesn't want to be there with you, and is mentally looking for an escape, or for a better prospect. No eye contact means you can pretty much give up then and there.

On a more physical note does your date lean towards you when you talk. Or have they touched you, no matter how briefly, this touching is often completely involuntary, but very telling, it's their body reacting to their emotions, and is a sure sign that they are attracted to you. Likewise if you touch them and they jerk away or bristle like you just shocked them, then this is a pretty negative reaction and your evening could be heading for a crash and burn.

There are many visual clues that are completely involuntary, like open arms meaning I am open and attracted to you, or crossed arms meaning, I am closed off stay away keep your distance. Is your date looking at your lips or touching theirs momentarily, then this is a sure sign they want you to kiss them. Other signs that your date wants you to kiss them are, Women may incline their head slightly, or close their eyes with a sleepy cat like look, or briefly touch your chin to brush away an imaginary crumb. All these are a green light for a first kiss so go for it.

Knowing what clues you can look for will give you a massive advantage in the dating game. Arm yourself with whatever weapon you can to gain the upper hand, and you will be much more likely to be successful. Good luck and most importantly have fun.

By: Tony W Kitson

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